I also have a similar question that's been in my mind for some time.
Which is easier to engage and pull?
1. The girl in the corner who looks bored, her friends are all dancing away but she is by herself, possibly on the phone or just looking alternately bored/smiley when her friends look at her.
2. The girl dancing in the crowd, having a good time and enjoying herself.
I caught myself wanting to approach the girl #1, but looking back I don't know which is the better choice.
Which is easier to engage and pull?
1. The girl in the corner who looks bored, her friends are all dancing away but she is by herself, possibly on the phone or just looking alternately bored/smiley when her friends look at her.
2. The girl dancing in the crowd, having a good time and enjoying herself.
I caught myself wanting to approach the girl #1, but looking back I don't know which is the better choice.