[Mango444]

So im just writing this as over the last 4 weeks i have been doing something that I wished to God i had done 10 years ago, everytime now when I have a new girl in my bed in the morning I simply try and find out if she is into other girls. I dont just come out and ask her so i start off with simple questions

so do you like to be massaged?
what other positions do you like?
what about outdoor sex?
have you ever kissed a women, would you like to try?
If no then, what about 2 guys?

in the last 4 weeks Ive been with 3 girls who were sticking around in sydney for more than a couple of days and all 3 either had a girl fantasy or a 2 guy fantasy. so I then started to talk about how I took my ex girlfriend to a swinging club and she loved it (at the time this wasnt true as ive never been to one before but I just wanted her to put herself in the shoes of my ex and make her think that other people were doing this and loving it)

Then I would just leave the idea in their head for a few days and the next time I saw them I would meet them and say hey we can go out to a bar / club and have a normal night out or we can do something really crazy.

2 out of the 3 went, the 3rd one was game but she got a job and left sydney the next day, pretty sure she was being honest. The 2nd girl to go was even just a couchsurfing girl who stayed at my place. She freaked out on the way there so we ended up coming back to my room and she was like hey can we do something else, I put a bit of light pressure on her by telling her its too late for the cinema and i dont fancy a club and I left her to sit in silence for 20 minutes until she snapped "ok lets go but if i dont feel like doing anything i wont ok" 2 hours later and she was in the middle of a 5some.

While i dont think the swinging clubs are amazing, maybe they would be in eastern europe, here most girls were slightly overweight and in their 40s but each time there was at least 2 hot girls. The thing is I think its very good to try these crazy things for your mental state but mainly if I had just asked these simple questions to all girls over the last 10 years I would have gotten so much more outside sex, 3somes, swinging clubs and what other crazy things girls could think about.

If a girl says she wants to try 2 guys well unless its your fantasy too then i would choose the swinging club route as at least she will let you play with other girls while she tries her fantasy.
but if she says I want to try a girl then instead you could line up a girl using adultmatch.com or craigslist and I think the best way to do it would be to put normal pics of your girl and you on it, and when you message other girls pretend to be your female partner rather than you if you know what i mean, just be honest with your girl and tell her that your going to find a girl for you to share and if you get one lined up on internet just show her the messages and hopefully she will be game.

Im really not an expert in the but im definitely going to be asking these simple questions after I have sex with a girl and see where it goes.

[Power_Ranger]

Swinging is only good if you're a single guy with prospects in the eyes of the women who are above the rest.

Majority of them are the types you'd avoid in any other situations and with bigger ego's.

You'll come across gross women who participate in orgies with lots of men on a daily basis and truly believe they're special. They are disgusting but the swinging lifestyle makes them look like a princess.

[Mango444]

Well I guess its very location based too my friends have been to the clubs in the UK and didnt like them at all but my experience is only limited to Oz and there both times we met great couples who were friendly and cool.

[Orson]

Most men - Roosh, for instance - dislike the swing scene because of homo-erotic aversion. Most men prefer their nasty fantasies lived out solo.

And most younger men are also more narcissistic, more self- or ego driven.

Therefore, it doesn't surprise me that Mango44 will find his enjoyments not widely shared here. And perhaps derided.

But more commonly among men of a certain age, the swing club experience - just like Mango44 describes - is truly fun and liberating for their lovers. It is like live, interactive porn (instead of merely porn shared to amp up one's love life). It's much more sociable, too!

And thus for men of a worldly maturity and the women who respond to them, this is an excellent aphrodisiac!

I expect to test this theory Eastern Europe this summer; I'll be sure to share my findings back here. Thanks Mango44!

[Mango444]

main aim of the post was really just a big fat reminder to myself and any younger guys that girls are really into crazy shit too and all you have to do is to remember to ask them and find out where it leads.

Last few weeks I have been in budapest where every girl I went with I just asked them loads of questions in the morning to see what they were into and one was Bi sexual this really sexy mexican girl and we ended up having a 3some where as just 8 months ago I was in Bangkok for a month and on my last night a girl I had been having casual sex with for the whole month told me she was bi sexual, why the fuck did I not ask her the first time I met her, lots of 3somes missed.

If anyone goes to budapest check out the magic baths parties that happen on a saturday night.

[Power_Ranger]

Having women who are bi and into threesomes is not swinging.

Swinging is a lifestyle where the husband and wife fuck around or to the dominance of one party through sub/cuckolding.

I doubt any man here would turn down the offer of sleeping with different women with their wife's permission but the line gets drawn when she wants to get in on it with another man. I believe that is the deal breaker for many on here.