[TravelerKai]

(12-20-2015 03:00 PM)Deepdiver Wrote:  

I like Tommy Sotomayor's solutions for example:

SOLUTION 1 Do not LTR a women with kids - occasional FWB is one thing - but LTR Dating or god forbid marriage - are you serious?

Marriage is a bad deal for men - fact most women initiate marriage around 24 mos to 48 mos of LTR especially if you are living together - fact 70% of women then initiate divorce and if there are kids expect some combo of alimony and child support enforced by the government nannny state. SOLUTION 2 It is 2015 and strong independent females demand equality of opportunity and income - well its time MEN demand they agree to equality of responsibility - how? NO marriage unless a woman agrees to a iron clad prenup process and agreement and joint custody so that there is NO alimony and NO child support - SOLUTION 3 she has to get off her 2015 money maker and GO MAKE SOME money to share responsibility of earning an income in fem-centric corporate America and share costs and responsibility of raising kids ... if she does not agree to these three basic shared responsibility requirements YOU DO NOT MARRY the sloe and you DO NOT knock her shit up.

Once again this is beginner shit. Do not marry is not a solution. Tommy is not the only cat hollering to not get married or date women. Tommy is a black MGTOW basically and that is not a good solution. Roosh said not too long ago, (I'm paraphrasing here) that any movement that does not encourage healthy relationships with women, is not going to go anywhere. It's basically male hamster on rage mode non-stop.

The problem with not having a solution is that it is inherently NOT masculine! Men are naturally problem solvers. Real men never stop seeking a solution for a problem. To give up and quit like that a pouting child is naturally effeminate. You do not want this kind of negative energy to infect your lifefource/energy and your soul. It is unproductive, unfulfilling, and not conducive to lifelong goals that men should have. Goals like family building and leadership within the family as it grows. That naturally leads to leadership within your communities (religious, political, social circles, professional, etc.).

Can you imagine how much more effective Tommy would be if he had actual solutions to offer men? He could rival or far surpass Roosh in sheer popularity alone. It's wasted potential, but the true tragedy is if young men like yourself fail to understand what his shortcomings are and not figure out a better way to get problems resolved. That would be a real waste for sure.