Quote: (05-15-2013 12:57 PM)gandt Wrote:
This is the only thread that I thought was applicable to my question.
Situation:
Let's say you have been gaming some hot russian girl through pipelining and the bang is essentially guaranteed.
OR
You have met this girl have have come close to fucking. You both wanted to. But simply couldn't due to logistics.
Question:
Would you pay for her to fly to you so you could fuck? Or fly to her country?
Keep in mind, these are no cross-atlantic flights. This situation would apply to a girl who is a couple countries away in Europe or a couple states away in the US.
What do you guys factor into the decision? Has anyone done this?
Most guys here would answer "No". I would say it depends on your own situation. If the cost of the ticket represents a lot of money then it's probably not a good idea. Basically if you can see yourself resenting the payment down the line then don't do it. Once the money is spent it's gone. And the girl might not sleep with you. May be different to what you expect (if you haven't met). Might have changed from the last time (if you have met). etc. etc.
Game and dating isn't a commercial transaction. It's not as if you can go report a chick to the Better Business Bureau because you bought her x number of drinks and she didn't sleep with you. You have to accept that whatever money you spend may, or may not, lead to where you want it to (wild sex). This is why a lot of guys here resent spending any money at all on chicks. In fact this forum is one of the few places I "meet" people cheaper than I am on a regular basis. I'm OK spending modest amounts, and with the inherent uncertainty in the game. But I don't spend money I don't have, can't afford, or have a reasonable chance of resenting.
PS: Of course this may also be a scam. Be careful sending money. If you do it rather buy the actual ticket.