While out with some work associates, I ended up 'alone' (others getting up to play pool, etc.,) at the one end of the table enjoying the band at the bar we were all at.
Anyway, a petite little blond sat down on one side of me and we got chatting... I was doing the usual game on her and it sure seemed like she was interested - but then an little asian girl sat down on the other side of me to introduce herself as well. Now, I was hoping to pull the blonde girls # (if not an SNL close) so I really didn't put effort into the asian girl.
Before long the asian girl is running interview questions on me (& I'm still trying to chat up the blonde) and we ended up swapping numbers - I think it ended up being something like "if her one male friend is going to play paintball, she'd get him to invite me" (her reasoning was because I'm in a new city and don't know anyone).
The blonde didn't work out and the asian girl had to leave early (with a guy she was there with - thing is, I don't know if it was a friend, a bf or just her transportation).
The Asian girl is bangable... not a 9 or 10.. but a solid 7+ with a great personality & conversational ability. But because I wasn't really paying attention to her, I wonder if her paintball friend reason is a for real thing or if she was using as it cover to give me her number. How would you guys with more experience handle this one? Just invite her out to coffee and 'restart' the situation? She's not a bar girl, so it may be hard to get her out to bar/pub environment again. Now, I'm also in a new city so I don't know where to take her - thus would pretty much have to let her lead - thoughts??
Anyway, a petite little blond sat down on one side of me and we got chatting... I was doing the usual game on her and it sure seemed like she was interested - but then an little asian girl sat down on the other side of me to introduce herself as well. Now, I was hoping to pull the blonde girls # (if not an SNL close) so I really didn't put effort into the asian girl.
Before long the asian girl is running interview questions on me (& I'm still trying to chat up the blonde) and we ended up swapping numbers - I think it ended up being something like "if her one male friend is going to play paintball, she'd get him to invite me" (her reasoning was because I'm in a new city and don't know anyone).
The blonde didn't work out and the asian girl had to leave early (with a guy she was there with - thing is, I don't know if it was a friend, a bf or just her transportation).
The Asian girl is bangable... not a 9 or 10.. but a solid 7+ with a great personality & conversational ability. But because I wasn't really paying attention to her, I wonder if her paintball friend reason is a for real thing or if she was using as it cover to give me her number. How would you guys with more experience handle this one? Just invite her out to coffee and 'restart' the situation? She's not a bar girl, so it may be hard to get her out to bar/pub environment again. Now, I'm also in a new city so I don't know where to take her - thus would pretty much have to let her lead - thoughts??