I can't find the thread but an old post by RVF OG Kona resonated well with me.
How do you stop flaking?
i. Escalate nonstop (day or night game) - till you can't escalate for any external reason. Act like you'll never see her again. Always be thinking about the bang - not social norms or rules. If its day game, of course get a number, but lock plans before taking the number not after and text 15min after to remind.
ii. If its night game - numbers are close to useless. Night game should only be for SNLs. Only exception might be restaurant dinner game where she was sober.
How do you stop flaking?
i. Escalate nonstop (day or night game) - till you can't escalate for any external reason. Act like you'll never see her again. Always be thinking about the bang - not social norms or rules. If its day game, of course get a number, but lock plans before taking the number not after and text 15min after to remind.
ii. If its night game - numbers are close to useless. Night game should only be for SNLs. Only exception might be restaurant dinner game where she was sober.