Quote: (09-20-2011 01:02 PM)Moma Wrote:
One of my female friends for instance, dumped a guy because his apartment was always messy. Is that fair?
If I honestly liked the girl, and she told me it mattered to her and it wasn't just nagging, then I'd keep it clean. It's not a strange or onerous demand. If it truly mattered to her, not cleaning it is disrespectful to her, and at some point that'll just get to her. If she's gotten to the point of being my girlfriend or LTR, I'll treat her like a human being.
Goes for both parties - if there's something she can do that would make me happier, and it doesn't cost much time money or effort, then she should do it. I broke up with a girl I really liked, back in the day, partly because she wouldn't get on birth control. Instead, she insisted on using condoms for sex.
If the chick can't make a minor sacrifice for my satisfaction, she isn't that committed. And vice versa. Then an exclusive LTR is out of the question.