It's not maddening, it's exactly how they're suppose to be. Women mature faster then men, but their maturation stops at about 20. Makes sense b/c they need a certain degree of physical/psychological maturity to handle children, but that's really all they need. What's maddening is the narrative in society that men and women experience life the same, which couldn't be further from the truth. Men need to be forged like steel, women need to prevent the tread from coming off. In other words, women simply are, men have to become. That's the harsh truth. From a genetic standpoint, women are pretty much guaranteed winners, men have to earn that right (barring modern social conventions that could be subverted if women simply chose).
Civilize the mind but make savage the body.