Quote: (05-13-2011 03:32 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:
Quote: (05-12-2011 03:07 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:
Quote: (05-11-2011 05:59 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:
I send the same types of messages to pretty much all girls, and what works on most just doesn't seem to work on these. I'm willing to accept its a matter of caliber, for now.
What does "does not respond" mean? Did she check your profile, or she just ignored her message? If she ignored your message, the problem may be with the message. If she checked your profile, then it is less clear. Maybe your profile is a problem. Or your pictures. Or - much more likely - there are no problems at all, she just wasn't in the mood. That's the difference between online and real world. It is easier to approach, but it is also easier to ignore. In real world it is harder to approach, but very difficult/impossible to ignore - at least here in the USA it seem to be not socially acceptable, she must clearly reject you instead.
BTW, you do know that at least 10% of the "girls" you send your message to are dudes fishing for good lines, and then reusing them on girls?
I used to monitor the "sent message" status on POF like a hawk a few months ago, but since being enlightened I've yet to check. I honestly dont give a shit if they respond.
I guess what Im curious about is why what works on most other girls seems to not phase these girls. My profile, pics, and messages work a good deal of the time, yet when I go for the upper echelon it just falls through.
The girls I"m talking about are the kind that are almost "too good looking" and really stand out of the lineup of faces on the dating sites.
@Gmac I've accepted that if these girls are real, they are looking for some guy with a six pack, and thats just not me, though I guarantee if they saw me when I was out and about they'd be all over me, its a shame that you can be a skinny dude with a six pack and be considered "in better shape" then the guy who's got much more muscle but lacks that abdominal definition.
Listen, game is not for proletarian types who rely on such superficial attributes. Is Jersey Shore your favorite television show or something?
Being in shape is one thing, relying on a physical attribute that is very difficult to maintain without drugs is for men with literally no other redeeming qualities. Such men were, in a more civilized age, mere peasants tilling the soil for their lord.