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The amount of good male friends I had in my life can be counted on 1 hand. Is it something about me that's turning people away or do you guys experience the same?
You're going to have to be a lot more specific about your personal circumstances for anyone here to attempt a diagnostic. Also, define "good male friend". I have several, but only one or two guys (outside of family) that I know I can count on. And that's enough. Because for every that you can fully depend on is a guy that you need to be just as dependable for. I don't want or need more than a handful.
Quote: (12-07-2013 04:56 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:
How selfish are you?
I am extremely selfish (often without realizing it).
Its great for women, but horrible for making friends.
MikeCF wrote a solid post on the effects of selfishness and male friendships. http://dangerandplay.com/2013/09/27/the-ten-year-test/