Quote: (09-21-2013 02:36 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (09-20-2013 06:05 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:
Also, cognitive reframing is great: She didn't reject you, you found out the massive set of girls who will fuck you doesn't include her.
"Cognitive Reframing"
Thanks for adding that. Thats exactly what this is.
I actually try to avoid the need to "re" frame. I want my frame right the first time.
I strive to have my frame optimized before I enter an interaction.
I would call it "Pre-Interaction Frame Setting/Establishing"
My frame is set before I enter the interaction so if she rejects me, my mind is already prepared to process it in a way that benefits me.
Of course, this doesn't always work and I often have a bit if "reframing" to do.
Call it, "Pre-framing."
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