I had 3 first dates this week, 1 bang.
The 2 that wouldn't bang, I feel pretty good about banging them on the 2nd or 3rd. I wouldn't consider them lost causes (I'm getting a lot of texts from both)
However, that might be due to the fact that I TRIED banging both of them. They both knew I was horny and ready to go, so they might be giving me attention for that very reason. If I had played the nice respectful guy I might be getting radio silence, but who knows? All three dates went well, I got heavy makeout session and groping from the two that wouldn't bang (both seemed like good girls, or at least sluts in a good girl phase)
So no, I wouldn't make a blanket statement like "the second date is dead". I would amend the statement to, "Let's *act* like the second date is dead"
The 2 that wouldn't bang, I feel pretty good about banging them on the 2nd or 3rd. I wouldn't consider them lost causes (I'm getting a lot of texts from both)
However, that might be due to the fact that I TRIED banging both of them. They both knew I was horny and ready to go, so they might be giving me attention for that very reason. If I had played the nice respectful guy I might be getting radio silence, but who knows? All three dates went well, I got heavy makeout session and groping from the two that wouldn't bang (both seemed like good girls, or at least sluts in a good girl phase)
So no, I wouldn't make a blanket statement like "the second date is dead". I would amend the statement to, "Let's *act* like the second date is dead"