Quote: (08-19-2012 08:54 AM)JJ Roberts Wrote:
Quote: (07-14-2012 07:42 AM)ElJefe Wrote:
Of course, the easiest thing to do is to be just be honest: admit you're not monogamous, but are not interested in polyamorous women.
You are quite right the easiest thing is to be honest but the choice is not between monogamy and polygamy.
It's between agreed mutual enforcement of exclusivity (fenced) and no agreed exclusivity (unfenced).
There is no need for deception or cheating.
Agreed. And if you can find a girl / persuade the existing one that unfenced is the way to go, all power to you.
However I find these elusive creatures to be a tiny minority, given that women are programmed by evolution to try to keep their man for themselves, and therefore a man who's interested what's on the other side of the fence has to jump over it unnoticed and come back ready to sell a good story.