Quote: (01-08-2018 08:58 PM)Distant Light Wrote:
IMO this whole perspective derives from fear/ego and the inadequacy of men wanting to gain control/power over there women...
Dudes need to grow up, if you're an awesome guy you'll attract awesome women plain and simple.
You talk like you haven't been in the field... This is not about gaining control, but about finding a decent girl who isn't addicted to casual sex and who's mentally intact; not necessarily an uptight religious woman. If you live in a big East Coast city like me, that's hard to find. Many of us also have internet businesses and work from home, so this 'awesome woman' isn't going to fall out of the sky, you need to approach her when you see her, and with the correct vibe and mindset.
A lot of men in this forum get defensive when their slut banging habits get challenged--you realize it's a bad thing to fuck mentally unstable women addicted to sex, and you get defensive about it. The thing is, these women leave a part of their sickness with you when you spend time with them--you become who you're with.
I'm done with it, completely over it.