So I've learned never to take their word for it when they say they can't do certain things like g-spot orgasms or cumming from intercourse alone. Odds are they can, but they've never been with a guy who could or would make her do it.
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sometimes you get the inverse problem - you'll get with one who has been ridden hard and she's waiting for you to ride her equally hard, but they play coy. For example, to hit the G-spot at right angle, you really have to fold her in half, and she knows it because one or two guys have rung that bell and she wants you to ring it but if she tells you how she'll give away how big a slut she it. catch 22.
the other thing to be aware of is when women hit 29-32, they carousel slows down for them, and they look for a beta orbiter to jump to. A mid 40s, short, balding friend of mine who is financially very successful recently got remarried to a 32 year old former swimsuit model. Right now he is very happy but you can just imagine the sort of cock carousel she rode.