Quote: (10-19-2016 10:19 AM)Sonoma Wrote:
I'm going to disagree with the above. She sounds okay but I'd be very careful.
I think the similar backgrounder are valued heavily by the OP and if that important than this girl is certainly a good catch. Clearly smart if in a PHD program and while 31 is kind of a deal breaker, it also shows that she's serious about the chaste stuff
It's definitely a deal breaker - means she's late in the the chase to be a career whore.
Or what ? They get married, she gives up the career chasing to become a mother of his kids - and he probably inherits her educational debt (if she took out loans)
A woman that's 31, a virgin, who chases a career, and still has PTSD from her ex is NOT good catch in my book.