I talk time to time with a girl over text. Whenever we text, I notice that sometimes moments will arise where she'll say something mean, rude, or pretend to be mad.
When I ask her about these things, she always gets defensive and says she's joking. I have a hard time believing her when she says it though. For example, I was texting with her, but then I had to do a little work for a few moments. When I came back to my phone, I saw a bunch of messages where she was literally begging for attention. I thought they were a little ridiculous but figured it's her weird joking and then ignored them and asked her about something else. She then said I don't care what she has to say. I then asked her about it and then she said that she was joking.
In my eyes, it's odd to joke in a way which would convince another person you're angry with them.Can anyone provide any insight into this?
When I ask her about these things, she always gets defensive and says she's joking. I have a hard time believing her when she says it though. For example, I was texting with her, but then I had to do a little work for a few moments. When I came back to my phone, I saw a bunch of messages where she was literally begging for attention. I thought they were a little ridiculous but figured it's her weird joking and then ignored them and asked her about something else. She then said I don't care what she has to say. I then asked her about it and then she said that she was joking.
In my eyes, it's odd to joke in a way which would convince another person you're angry with them.Can anyone provide any insight into this?