Of course you can bang her.
You need to make it easier for her to do what she really wants.
No judgment, just a sympathetic ear and dick.
Take her out
Have a good time
Make mention that we should have one last drink back at your place.
If the boyfriend comes up when you go for the extraction
- oh, is he very controlling? I'm sure he's a nice guy.
Keep talking up his niceness, and she'll do her best to disabuse you of that notion. If you dis him, she'll defend him.
"You probably just need five minutes to clear your head. You know how sometimes you're knee deep into something..And before you know it.."
"It's not a big deal"
Bang her out, THEN help her mend fences with the boyfriend.
Frame your sexual encounter as merely a massage or just letting off steam. She needs to do that from time to time.
But you make her love the boyfriend again, so she gets those feelings from him, but with you it's only sex, "to help clear her head".
So when she goes back to him, she can workout their issues with a clean slate. All you did was help with the blockage. You're basically just a massage therapist, deep tissue. There's nothing wrong or immoral about her choices..plus "he doesn't own you, does he"
There's really a whole lot you can do to make this smooth. The key here is that she wants to cheat. But..She's a monkey looking for the next cock to swing from. So that's why you want her to not see you as boyfriend material.
There's actually a whole lot more to said on this situation.
WIA
You need to make it easier for her to do what she really wants.
No judgment, just a sympathetic ear and dick.
Take her out
Have a good time
Make mention that we should have one last drink back at your place.
If the boyfriend comes up when you go for the extraction
- oh, is he very controlling? I'm sure he's a nice guy.
Keep talking up his niceness, and she'll do her best to disabuse you of that notion. If you dis him, she'll defend him.
"You probably just need five minutes to clear your head. You know how sometimes you're knee deep into something..And before you know it.."
"It's not a big deal"
Bang her out, THEN help her mend fences with the boyfriend.
Frame your sexual encounter as merely a massage or just letting off steam. She needs to do that from time to time.
But you make her love the boyfriend again, so she gets those feelings from him, but with you it's only sex, "to help clear her head".
So when she goes back to him, she can workout their issues with a clean slate. All you did was help with the blockage. You're basically just a massage therapist, deep tissue. There's nothing wrong or immoral about her choices..plus "he doesn't own you, does he"
There's really a whole lot you can do to make this smooth. The key here is that she wants to cheat. But..She's a monkey looking for the next cock to swing from. So that's why you want her to not see you as boyfriend material.
There's actually a whole lot more to said on this situation.
WIA