She Has the Power If you’re the one Mate-Guarding. Betas Mateguard, Alphas Disregard.
06-05-2016, 06:34 AM
Not much more to add after CDSG & WIA's excellent data.
I would say though; just have a general interest in people. If you dont have a burning fun positive attitude going in, invent one on the spot, at a minimum to give yourself a good time. Take a real interest in people. Be curious about who they are. Regardless of sexual desire or whatever deeply rooted motivations cause us to act the way we do around people. Who cares who they are, or their backgrounds, just be a chameleon for the night. Have an open mind, share in the fun you want to have. Cracking jokes and being funny is a ++. If you are a storyteller, and you have that skill, now is the time to use it.
Taking a real interest in other people will get you out of your shell. You may not be the most boisterous life of the party, but you will connect, and by connecting we get out of our own heads and learn. Interacting with people is a learning opportunity. It opens doors in so many different ways. A simple conversation at a party with an interesting person could blow your mind. It could set you on a new path in life. You could meet or get introduced to someone that will positively affect your life. A new job, idea, joke to steal, client, career move, whatever it may be. You never know. Without curiously exploring the party sipping a free drink, you're stuck in your head and thinking about your date too much.
Let her think you are better friends now with her friends. Let her voluntarily apologize for not standing by your side all night. In truth she will be reassured and more confident in you(i.e. wetter), that you can hold your own and be on your own in her group, without her babysitting you. And that you wont go off and do something that looks ridiculously stupid in front of her lifelong friends.
I would say though; just have a general interest in people. If you dont have a burning fun positive attitude going in, invent one on the spot, at a minimum to give yourself a good time. Take a real interest in people. Be curious about who they are. Regardless of sexual desire or whatever deeply rooted motivations cause us to act the way we do around people. Who cares who they are, or their backgrounds, just be a chameleon for the night. Have an open mind, share in the fun you want to have. Cracking jokes and being funny is a ++. If you are a storyteller, and you have that skill, now is the time to use it.
Taking a real interest in other people will get you out of your shell. You may not be the most boisterous life of the party, but you will connect, and by connecting we get out of our own heads and learn. Interacting with people is a learning opportunity. It opens doors in so many different ways. A simple conversation at a party with an interesting person could blow your mind. It could set you on a new path in life. You could meet or get introduced to someone that will positively affect your life. A new job, idea, joke to steal, client, career move, whatever it may be. You never know. Without curiously exploring the party sipping a free drink, you're stuck in your head and thinking about your date too much.
Let her think you are better friends now with her friends. Let her voluntarily apologize for not standing by your side all night. In truth she will be reassured and more confident in you(i.e. wetter), that you can hold your own and be on your own in her group, without her babysitting you. And that you wont go off and do something that looks ridiculously stupid in front of her lifelong friends.