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From my experience, the easiest way to bypass all of this male orbiter bs is to strike very very early. Go for the kiss very early after meeting her (within a couple of hours to a few days) and if she deflects, cut it off. You won't waste any more time thinking about what could have happened. If she wanted it, she would have taken that opportunity. I don't mean to say bounce after one attempt at a kiss, but she'll let go if she wants it after a second attempt for sure. If not, there are many other broads out there who will take it when you present them with the first opportunity to get at you.