The title of this thread is a bit misleading...since the second date is only dead
if you screw up the first one or you pick the wrong girl to begin with.
Your focus should be on getting the girl to a specific emotional/mental state
not hoping when you can "see her again" the next time...
Also realize that some girls are simply not reliable dating material..they either are too busy
or too distracted to commit to plans and follow through.
You have to determine which scenario best reflects your situation:
1.The girl is a flake and cannot commit to a single thing.
2. You don't have searing chemistry
3. You do have searing chemistry but your schedules don't match most of the time
1 and 2 are probably the most common...especially if you don't have hot searing chemistry
and simply have a "nice" time..then a second date is honestly 50/50 at best...
especially when you're competing with her Netflix Game of Thrones quality time....
if you screw up the first one or you pick the wrong girl to begin with.
Your focus should be on getting the girl to a specific emotional/mental state
not hoping when you can "see her again" the next time...
Also realize that some girls are simply not reliable dating material..they either are too busy
or too distracted to commit to plans and follow through.
You have to determine which scenario best reflects your situation:
1.The girl is a flake and cannot commit to a single thing.
2. You don't have searing chemistry
3. You do have searing chemistry but your schedules don't match most of the time
1 and 2 are probably the most common...especially if you don't have hot searing chemistry
and simply have a "nice" time..then a second date is honestly 50/50 at best...
especially when you're competing with her Netflix Game of Thrones quality time....