I keep writing this post and keep not posting it. Because it goes against the usual theme on this forum.
And this isn't directed at the OP, who seems to have some principles he lives by.
But if you choose to go RAW, things like pregnancy happen, right? Yes, she could have said put a condom on, but you (general you) could have also put the condom on. And chose not to.
Then there are posts - not always as thoughtful as the OP's - saying what a bitch, wants to have a kid, I don't have a say in the matter. But you had a say in the matter when you chose not to wrap it - yes, once in a while the condom fails - just part of life and sorry that it happens.
But I don't think being a man is about having unrealistic expectations that it should just be the way you want it. That is generally a child's view and they throw tantrums and shit. Being a man is being responsible and cleaning up your messes. Sometimes, I just see posts where the theme is "I fucked up and I don't want to deal with the consequences."
And this is all very easy for me to say, since I am not in this situation and never have. It is entirely possible that I would be flipping out if I knocked up some girl that was just a slut that I didn't respect at all. I can own that my viewpoint is shaped without actually going through this event.
tl;dr just wrap it. If you don't - what do you think happens?
And this isn't directed at the OP, who seems to have some principles he lives by.
But if you choose to go RAW, things like pregnancy happen, right? Yes, she could have said put a condom on, but you (general you) could have also put the condom on. And chose not to.
Then there are posts - not always as thoughtful as the OP's - saying what a bitch, wants to have a kid, I don't have a say in the matter. But you had a say in the matter when you chose not to wrap it - yes, once in a while the condom fails - just part of life and sorry that it happens.
But I don't think being a man is about having unrealistic expectations that it should just be the way you want it. That is generally a child's view and they throw tantrums and shit. Being a man is being responsible and cleaning up your messes. Sometimes, I just see posts where the theme is "I fucked up and I don't want to deal with the consequences."
And this is all very easy for me to say, since I am not in this situation and never have. It is entirely possible that I would be flipping out if I knocked up some girl that was just a slut that I didn't respect at all. I can own that my viewpoint is shaped without actually going through this event.
tl;dr just wrap it. If you don't - what do you think happens?
Fate whispers to the warrior, "You cannot withstand the storm." And the warrior whispers back, "I am the storm."
Women and children can be careless, but not men - Don Corleone
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