Jealousy is not an emotion of a player.
Jealousy means that you're somehow invested in a broad's loyalty and fidelity to you. Like even after you've spent a year taking in manosphere knowledge, you actually think a chick's tendency to be hypergamous doesn't apply to you, cause busted a nut in her before you hit the venue. "dude my seed causes a serotonin reaction binding her soul to mine"
If you've been in the game long enough, you've pulled chicks from would-be players who plied her with liquor the whole night, dweeb boyfriends, alpha boyfriends, fiances, lesbian lovers, children, and husbands. These chicks have no honor. They don't have our value system, it's why they routinely flaunt it and baffle the common man.
The game is about getting into her mind and hitting that part of her brain that says "let's fuck in the back of your beat up Mitsubishi Montero before my date finds me"
So if you're steady hi-jacking a chick's brain, it's only hubris that makes you think it won't happen to you, like you're the only dude in the world that can turn her on.
Even a pious Saudi broad will take it in the ass if you can get her alone.
Being jealous about a chick finding the next man interesting, is like being mad that the dog will eat scraps that have fallen off your table.
That's a dog's nature. That's a chick's nature.
And she will see nothing wrong with laughing at the next man's dirty joke. She won't see anything wrong with going to her Ex's wedding. She won't say no to the group of guys who buy her and her friends some drinks @ girls night out.
"We were just dancing"
"I've known that guy forever"
"I figured I'd ask him to look @ the transmission cause he's an engineer"
"it's not like I'm sleeping with him"
You will watch her respond to dudes the way she responds to you, and it will burn you, burn you deep to the core. Cause you know what that dude is thinking. Her punching him in the arm cause of what he said...that's how you bagged her....that's how you knew she was open to get the dick....And now you're watching the shit play out with some other guy.
And she does these things, not to be malicious, not to manipulate you, but she does it unconsciously. This is who she is. Even if you were to point it out she wouldn't see a problem with it. If she does stop the behavior, it will be to assuage your insecurity, and she'll only do that when you're around. You put your foot down, and you lose "hand".
This is a game you cannot win, unless you keep your broad under lock and key, with the patter of little feet.
...But don't let the shoe be on the other foot...all hell will break loose, cause in her mind, you being charismatic and gregarious is your attempt to pull more bitches...(and it very may well be!)
Every once in a while, you're gonna have to put your claim on a chick in public - for the benefit of her friends- get them to swoon a bit giving her some benefit in her circle - but in very real terms she does not belong to you.
You can't ever "have" her.
She can have you though. She can replace you. She can replace you with something worse, know that she fucked up...but she can't ever fix her mistake....
And that's part of the inequity of the game.
That's why you take the red pill. It's acknowledging how unfair everything is, and accepting the reality of it, and bending that reality to your own ends.
WIA
Quote: (06-12-2013 10:54 PM)nek Wrote:
The title says it all. There's a lot of talk about 'Don't be jealous' but I think the more important thing is 'Don't show that your jealous'. Jealousy is okay, and from what I've observed in my social circle over the last few weeks, it's almost always warranted. If a guy thinks his girl is willing to step out or likes a particular guy more than platonically, he's right. The trick is to simply save face and not show it. Jealousy is part of your gut instinct, and that has evolved over generations to become what it is now. So if you're jealous, you probably should be. It happens to most, if not all, of us, so it's nothing to be ashamed about, but the key is to not 'show' it. Simply act. If your jealous, you can't trust her, which means you need to start emotionally detaching yourself. It's better not to get to that point in the first place, but it does happen, so you just need to start the detachment process. Don't be ashamed of feeling that way. The quicker you recognize it, the quicker you can start doing something about it. In essence, don't run from jealousy, just know what to do with it.