Quote: (07-10-2011 04:14 PM)MiXX Wrote:
Quote: (07-10-2011 03:03 PM)Sh0t Wrote:
I won't talk about small raves, as that scene died down out here, but the Massives are mostly horrible for meeting chicks. If you go and you are UNRELENTING, you can probably get lucky, but there are not meat markets the way raves used to be, unless you prefer sausage. You will see some of the CREEPIEST dudes on earth at raves these days, and most of the 'women' are going to be underage or with their man for protection.
True, there are a ton of sausages, which is why I target women still raving between 4am, and 7am - that is the fucking sweet-spot of pulling them away. They are hungry, tired, and a warm breakfast with a freshly smelling guy who does not smell like sweat from dancing all night and looks creepy on X overdose.
If you sarge raves between 2100hrs and 0400hrs, you are setting yourself up for frustration. That's the "leave me alone, I'm raving with my friends/boyfriend window".
Wait for the "take me home and feed/fuck me window" that shortly follows. A lot of guys have given-up by that time, and call it a night or take second best.
@SH0t and @MiXX, both very valid points. I agree. Raves are actually, maybe surprisingly to an outsider, not ideal for easy lays.
@MiXX, That's some good advice but logistically can be difficult to arrive/enter a rave at that late time. Depends on the rave, if it's an rave that's outdoors or a festival where you need tixs, it poses a challenge.
My Experience with RAVES:
Started going to raves in the late 90s in Vancouver and vicinity. (Say 1998 maybe). Back then these were small(er), illegal raves. You had to call a number the day off and you would be given an address. One time, we had to meet some guy in supermarket parking lot after hours, get into a Cargo Van and he would drive us into a warehouse area that was totally inconspicuous. The gates would open and... a there were like a few hundred people raving it up. Pretty sick.
Then in the early 2000s the raves became legal and corporate and were held in big convention centers or halls. Sometimes no alcohol allowed but of course lots of drugs, everyone was mostly on e.
I only went to a bunch of them over the years but what stand out for me is:
- Yes people do hook up although it seems like now it could be harder, as nowadays girls go in very large groups, whereas before it was normal to see a girl rolling (literally) solo.
- There is a sweet spot when people think about hooking up when on ecstasy, probably towards the end of the trip. Most people (girls and guys) just wanna dance and enjoy the sensations when they are peaking.
- The best is to isolate a girl and dance and hopefully transition to a quieter place (e.g. a chill-out house music couch area) after a while and escalate kino
- Raves where there is camping provide pretty sweet logistics
- People will not really leave a rave without their friends (who they are supposed to watch out for) so you are left with either bathrooms stalls for quickies (tough), or just a makeout session, number-close. This is where presenting them with an after-party (even for a group) can work in your favor.
- I haven't been to a lot of crazy ass massive raves in the last few years, but been to a few DJ concerts (Avicii or Tiesto) and those things are gong-shows, there are way to many people, girls get way too much attention and they just wants to party and enjoy the DJ and dance. Not ideal places to hook up but I might be wrong. This is just my perspective.
- Now, I sometime go to an after-party (2am-8am) legal club after clubbing just to check out the scene and I almost always leave disapointed and empty-handed. It's just such a sausage-fest and the few girls that are there (like 20-30%) are either either with their BF, too high to care, too much into music to care, or too weird. Rarely some good targets.
In conclusion:
-Smaller is better than massive
-Private is better than public
-Outdoors with camping is better than some convention center
-Have an after-party plan in place is better than not having one
-Bring rubbers because sometime you will run into a horny hottie that's wants it right there, right now (this never happened to me but I got close a few times - there is just way too much distraction for girls at these massive events.)