yeah it IS about being normal. i dare you to be normal when you look into a hottie's amazing eyes or touch her perfect hips and actually stay normal like you are with your best friend.
the title is as accurate it can be and the word "my" in it is not accidental. i'm not trying to convince anybody to agree with me. some do, some don't it's all good.
i never meant to it to be innovative. i simply illustrated one thing that was way more effective FOR ME than "attraction land" of game game game, aka being loud, throwing big gestures, dancing with all the girls, making out left and right, saying hillarious/impressive/bold things, ie: being another full cheesy player she can be entertain with and give fake number to. i really thought that the hotties needed to see my super duper awesome game as a sign of my status. FAIL. i was my own worst enemy.
then I've found that being a guy comfortable being who he is around hot princess is what makes me awesome. no pickup aura. no trying to be cool. the must have frame to set: "we're equals/same league" therefore so need for conveying value. example: if you tell something like "jeeez you look like twin sister of anna, for one moment i really thought you were her, since you're not we should meet, hi, what is YOUR name?", can you see what it subcommunicates?
now my interactions are more chill. no playerish vibe. nothing 'gamey' apart from typical socializing with people around, handshakes, just chilling, not trying any shit, meanwhile spotting the hotties and approaching them casualy, not making them laugh too much, no overescalating, no attracting too hard.
being normal while approaching hottest ass around is DHV, caring less than her whether it goes anywhere is DHV, being in control is DHV, enduring her scepticism is big DHV (usually the less gamey you come across the less tests they give). so instead of attracting more, i go straight to getting to know each other (with flirtations in between of course), we hold the tension with eyes, it goes smoothly, we ask eachother deep, personal questions, we open up, she shows me the REAL girl inside of her, she gets interested, then excited and with time eventually turned on usually in privacy, not in public place.
from the side it looks smooth but rather boring to watch. totally invisible game. two people standing next to each other, running their mouths, smiling, sitting together, looking into each other eyes, bit of seductive and classy physicality, holding hands, maybe some dancing, maybe making a toast, talking to her group. basically quite innocent scene.
the title is as accurate it can be and the word "my" in it is not accidental. i'm not trying to convince anybody to agree with me. some do, some don't it's all good.
i never meant to it to be innovative. i simply illustrated one thing that was way more effective FOR ME than "attraction land" of game game game, aka being loud, throwing big gestures, dancing with all the girls, making out left and right, saying hillarious/impressive/bold things, ie: being another full cheesy player she can be entertain with and give fake number to. i really thought that the hotties needed to see my super duper awesome game as a sign of my status. FAIL. i was my own worst enemy.
then I've found that being a guy comfortable being who he is around hot princess is what makes me awesome. no pickup aura. no trying to be cool. the must have frame to set: "we're equals/same league" therefore so need for conveying value. example: if you tell something like "jeeez you look like twin sister of anna, for one moment i really thought you were her, since you're not we should meet, hi, what is YOUR name?", can you see what it subcommunicates?
now my interactions are more chill. no playerish vibe. nothing 'gamey' apart from typical socializing with people around, handshakes, just chilling, not trying any shit, meanwhile spotting the hotties and approaching them casualy, not making them laugh too much, no overescalating, no attracting too hard.
being normal while approaching hottest ass around is DHV, caring less than her whether it goes anywhere is DHV, being in control is DHV, enduring her scepticism is big DHV (usually the less gamey you come across the less tests they give). so instead of attracting more, i go straight to getting to know each other (with flirtations in between of course), we hold the tension with eyes, it goes smoothly, we ask eachother deep, personal questions, we open up, she shows me the REAL girl inside of her, she gets interested, then excited and with time eventually turned on usually in privacy, not in public place.
from the side it looks smooth but rather boring to watch. totally invisible game. two people standing next to each other, running their mouths, smiling, sitting together, looking into each other eyes, bit of seductive and classy physicality, holding hands, maybe some dancing, maybe making a toast, talking to her group. basically quite innocent scene.