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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 12:43 PM
I fail to see the negatives of someone stating a racial preference. If you belong to a group someone doesn't want to date, then that speeds up the process of finding someone else that does.
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 12:51 PM
Any preferences are valid. Trying to shame that with labels is chick behavior.
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 02:49 PM
I agree with one of the posters here that the "black guy" statement is racist. Everything else that "Kirk" said is valid.
However, there is a more polite way of stating things than he did. For example, if I were on tinder, my add would say the following:
1) No kids
2) Please be HWP.
3) Please be D/D free.
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 03:03 PM
Quote: (04-23-2019 12:32 PM)Thot Leader Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2019 10:03 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2019 10:00 AM)VNvet Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2019 07:51 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:
The whole black guys statement is racist and should get him thrown off the app.
But the principle of having standards is not a problem and the label of "misogynistic" is wrong.
You can't argue that the "principle of having standards is not a problem" and then say someone should get banned from the app for having standards that you don't like.
That's social media CEO logic.
No, if you are discriminating somebody on the basis of their skin color is not "having standards".
That's being racist, that's common sense.
What about discriminating based on their bone structure or IQ? Or on established (and statistically valid) undesirable traits that are linked to their group? You aren't allowed as an individual to say "I'm just not interested in any of you"?
So all blacks have the same IQ and the same bone structure?
No of course not. All your arguments are falling flat. Please stop embarrassing yourself.
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 03:06 PM
Quote: (04-23-2019 10:31 AM)Manbeline Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2019 07:51 AM)Thrill Jackson Wrote:
The whole black guys statement is racist and should get him thrown off the app.
But the principle of having standards is not a problem and the label of "misogynistic" is wrong.
All these girls bluntly state their standards all the time, particularly height on Tinder.
If the "I only date black/white guys" pictures are true that were from these dating apps, like you said, being racist is not a negative for the women.
When did I say being racist is not a negative for women?
Being racist is a negative for anybody, period.
EDIT: I'm not going to keep responding to all your people arguing for this guy's desire but please know the difference between having a PREFERENCE (ex:"I prefer white girls, not into black girls) and being RACIST (ex: "I will never date a black girl")
If you all can't understand that then we will just be running in circles.
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04-23-2019, 03:26 PM
"Why you care what color man other man no want girl he want bang to bang Mr High School drama man?"
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04-23-2019, 03:48 PM
Having preference is fine but totally canceling out a whole segment of girls, especially on traits she has no control over is quite dumb. When men speak in absolutes about pussy it just screams to me a lack of experience with lots of types of women. Once you fuck girls of all types and backgrounds you quickly learn that all pussy is pink and all girls be crazy.
The only real traits to be selective with in aside from aesthetic features you may find more desirable class and culture. Aside from those two no girl is offering you anything unique. Environment can play a factor as men will typically fuck what is around then and what they can have access too. You dump any guy in the middle of a city China he is going to have to learn to like Chinese girls real quick or he ain't getting no play.
But to speak in absolutes, very silly.
When dudes box themselves in to near fetish levels of race for only certain types of girls they will always nosedive in quality to stick with the they like. The classic example is yellow fever dudes who have no qualms fucking ugly Asian girls as that is just what they know.
If a dude claims he doesn't like black girls for example and you put him in a bar with ugly white girls and hot black girls what is he going to do? If you live in reality you're going to go after hottest girls you can get traction with. So there is nothing wrong finding more traits desirable (for example maybe you find very nice hair as a trait you like, some girls of different backgrounds will have very nice hair relative to others) and then building a preference. But, it isn't absolute and thier is grey to it all.
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04-23-2019, 04:12 PM
His issue is women that he would date who have dated black guys. He didn’t mention black women. Where this issue has its beginnings and reasons for it, we can only guess.
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 05:35 PM
I've been doing this type of profile for the past year (but without the racial restrictions lol). I have a list of things I don't like and write "don't waste my time" if they have one of these things. I recently added tattoos to this list and have had a lot of girls write back, "I have a couple of tattoos, is that OK?"
Some dates tell me in person that they really liked my profile. Of course, I probably filter out some hot ones because they don't meet my criteria or think I'm an arrogant 'misogynist", but the ones who do get through are very interested and already meet a lot of my minimum standards.
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 06:48 PM
He is obviously winning.
wb the typist if she ever got her teeth fixed
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04-23-2019, 07:28 PM
Quote: (04-23-2019 06:48 PM)eradicator Wrote:
He is obviously winning.
wb the typist if she ever got her teeth fixed
The typist
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04-23-2019, 07:52 PM
Looks like a 7 or a 7.5 if you’re into that in the first pic, a 6 in the second because of the fucked up teeth. First pic looks like it has professional lighting and the second photo looks like a candid shot
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Bodybuilding Chad branded as trash for having standards on Tinder
04-23-2019, 08:31 PM
Any pic that doesn't obviously show the weight/body of the girl is suspect to me.
Agree she is a 7 in the first pic (dateable) and a 6 in the second pic (bangable but not dateable)