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06-30-2018, 02:28 AM
I'm still a young man, but as I've gotten older I've also begun to realize the importance of being close to family. If you decide to move to another country, you may tell yourself that you'll visit Mom and Dad, but in the end, you won't. And if you do, it won't happen frequently. At least not for most men. Hell, both of my parents came from different states and I rarely saw either of my grandparents growing up.
Curious about what you guys think about this...
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06-30-2018, 03:08 PM
I've read some of this thread but not all of it. Can you guys help me catch up? Are there any conclusions about countries that are good options for both living and finding a girlfriend or wife? Several people have mentioned Vietnam. Are there other places?
Zoom said Peru is better than Dominican Republic. That isn't surprising and I know Zoom is legit. However, is Peru really the best option in Latin America?
Peruvians aren't as bad as some Latinas in terms of being promiscuous and high drama but they aren't great either. I suppose anywhere you go in Latin America, you need to get out of the big cities and find traditional girls.
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07-01-2018, 01:54 PM
I knew a guy who went "to the old country" (Poland) and imported a wife. Brought her parents over too, to provide instant grandparents. He was a shrimpy guy with a huge nose so could not get any action in American girls, but the polish girls were fine with him.
But it has been rough. The polish parents don't like it here and make his life hell.
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07-01-2018, 06:39 PM
Haven't met any Polish girls that were interested in moving to North America. Met a lot who lived or traveled in the US and/or Canada but none were head over heels about it. The majority loves Spain, that's the only place I can think of where that will bring you extra points if you have a nice financial situation and if you're under 35.
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07-02-2018, 09:06 PM
Not an easy task.
I tried to entice a near perfect girl out of Mexico a decade ago. When we were in MX it was incredible, but when she came to Canada to visit the spark went out of her.
The west can be a cold, confined place for people used to the chaos of a place like Mexico. Not many would be willing to try and bring dirt poor girls out, so trying to bring a normal middle class girl out will be a big challenge.
For most solid girls, family and community are their world. That we love them for it, is so much why the situation is so hard.
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07-02-2018, 11:42 PM
I scratch my head sometimes when I see this thread "BOB UP" every now and then
The Thread title is "wife hunting abroad" fairly simple you would think....nope because..
1) I can't leave my family and grand pappy
2) I can't take hot weather
3) I can't risk my job
4) can't risk bringing her here
etc...
Here is the risk you face in a nut shell marrying a girl in the West
100 percent likely to be unhappy and miserable (living alone while with a partner) at some point
50 percent likely to be divorced after a long term marriage of 5 years ...not 30 or 40 years
80 percent likely any kid you had you'll pay for and only be allowed visitation after the above divorce
95 percent of marriages entered into for the wrong reasons..lonely..it was time...I settled..did what was expected....the 5% that last true LOVE
..and those are only the quick facts...other sh1t like wife cheating...wife on drugs... wife's a bi sexual we will ignore.
So where can you spawn? Is it a Motel 6 with the local slut or the Mormon frigid skank? or go beta and have a mix kid which doesn't look or even think like you.
I'm a parent ...actually a 5 times grand parent and counting....I don't give a rats ass that NONE of my kids relationships worked or multiple fathers for various kids....I want my kids to be happy....none are.
Any member here that thinks "the logistics" or "cultural divide" is to much to deal with does not see the carnage within his own country
When a guy is fully prepared for LOVE and finds the ONE...nothing matters and a parent like me could die fucking happy knowing his kid was happy even if the ONE was from the planet MARS.
A kid let's not forget is the "extension" of two people in LOVE...your best friend ....the lifelong pair bond. your life partner no matter where she came from.
searching for your love/lover/friend abroad is a better thread title....and achievable .....whatever flows from the love ..be it a boat a house a kid it is from the love of the pair
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07-09-2018, 09:34 PM
I'm sure it's been mentioned before, but it is good to mention it again.
If you are hunting abroad, take note of the IQ level of the countries. Peru, Colombia, even Southeast Asia, all have relatively low IQ levels.
This reality will become more obvious the more time you spend there.
USA is around 100. A place like Colombia is like 85. That is a full standard deviation. If you are smart for the USA, it will be even a greater noticeable difference.
It is kind of a depressing topic because you will meet such sweet, sexy girls in these countries... girls that will treat you well.
But it never really leaves my mind that if I have offspring with these lower IQ girls, they will take a hit in the IQ department.
All other things being equal, why would you want your kids to be less smart than they could be?
I'm not sure what to do about it, just that it is there and it is part of the existential pain!
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07-10-2018, 04:39 AM
So true.
One can find a pleasant and relatively pretty enough girl to love and perhaps marry in the third world, but the low IQ can be a major deterrent. Obviously, two high IQ parents are not guaranteed to produce high IQ offspring, but the chances are definitely greater than if you mate with a lower IQ individual.
My personal experience in South America reinforces this. Not saying there are no smart people there, but averaged out, it does not bode well if you want to provide the best genetic head start for your offspring. Not to mention that girls there are physically shorter and more prone to be overweight, which are also genetically related factors.
Then again, high IQ individuals are more common in the first world, and with that comes with an entitled attitude and the rest.
There really is no easy solution to this, and it's one of the principal factors I consider when I consider marriage and children. If anyone has any tips on this I'd love to hear about it.
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07-10-2018, 08:08 AM
I don't have as much experience wife hunting as other people, but one argument I'd make for girls in countries with less IQ is that in my dating experience with them, they have really taught me how to stop and smell the roses, find optimism in life when I tend to be paranoid about worst case scenarios, along with recognizing the more important core functions/necessities in life. Admittedly I do need to sample some other countries, most mentioned above, but all I'm saying is maybe don't write the more statistically low IQ country girls off automatically. I do believe there's life IQ you can't measure by stats sometimes.
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07-10-2018, 09:05 AM
How long can I pull off the long distance relationship before I have to move to her country permanently? If we meet for few days once in few months
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07-10-2018, 02:30 PM
Quote: (07-09-2018 09:34 PM)Slam Wrote:
I'm sure it's been mentioned before, but it is good to mention it again.
If you are hunting abroad, take note of the IQ level of the countries. Peru, Colombia, even Southeast Asia, all have relatively low IQ levels.
This reality will become more obvious the more time you spend there.
USA is around 100. A place like Colombia is like 85. That is a full standard deviation. If you are smart for the USA, it will be even a greater noticeable difference.
It is kind of a depressing topic because you will meet such sweet, sexy girls in these countries... girls that will treat you well.
But it never really leaves my mind that if I have offspring with these lower IQ girls, they will take a hit in the IQ department.
All other things being equal, why would you want your kids to be less smart than they could be?
I'm not sure what to do about it, just that it is there and it is part of the existential pain!
Just go for rich girls who attended expensive private schools. Even in sub-Saharan Africa you can find women with over 100 IQ if you skip on the lower and middle class women.
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07-10-2018, 03:12 PM
IQ is really the least of the problems. If you raise your half Colombian kids in your home country in a functioning environment, they will become just as smart as you.