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01-28-2012, 10:12 PM
What do you do with girls who want to fuck you but you just want to be friends with them because they are social connectors
when they call up to do something what do you do?
When I have gatherings at my place I invite them over for shit like that but for just one on one stuff?
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Girl Friends
01-28-2012, 10:41 PM
You don't want to fuck them? If not, then don't. Do what you like. If you don't want them, go for their friends. Not sure if that answered your question but you were a little unclear.
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01-28-2012, 11:02 PM
ya I know that but when I hang out with friends that are girls its always through social gatherings with my social group like drinks before we goto an event etc
I dont hang out with any of my girlfriends like lets go see a movie or lets goto coffee its always group related things
i dated this girl but I didnt like her but I find it weird to goto coffee?? idk
if I invite her for drinks at my place shes forced to bring friends because she would feel weird coming solo its just staying friends with someone
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01-28-2012, 11:06 PM
Well, are you acquainted with the concept of "friends with benefits"?
why not?
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01-29-2012, 08:24 AM
Quote: (01-28-2012 11:50 PM)TennisPlayer Wrote:
I dont want to fuck her
Then let her know flat out that you're not interested, there is no point in hedging your bets on this issue. Sure she might be a little miffed, but she will either get over it or isn't worth your time anyway.
Be
decisive.
Your best? Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen! -John Mason (The Rock)
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01-29-2012, 08:30 AM
I already told her that as well...
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01-29-2012, 08:39 AM
Quote: (01-29-2012 08:30 AM)TennisPlayer Wrote:
I already told her that as well...
Then tell her again, and this time make it so abundantly clear it's impossible to miss, and if you have to use a damned neon sign.
Your best? Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen! -John Mason (The Rock)
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01-29-2012, 12:43 PM
I wouldn't tell her that you don't want to fuck her. Better to live it a mystery. If you flat out tell her, she might resent it and secretly start to dislike you. Keep her on your good side. You don't ever have to touch her if you don't want to. Why give up power?
Who knows? You might want her to give you a late night BJ sometime.
Be cool with her and she will set you up with her friends.
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01-29-2012, 01:50 PM
she must be pretty ugly if you dont want to bang. try to set up a friends with benefits kind of deal, make jokes about banging her friends and then do so. she'll eventually fall in love with you and wont care what you do because shes under your alpha spell.
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01-30-2012, 08:38 PM
Yeah, def don't reject her outright if you want to benefit from her in any way/ I had a chubby female friend like that, who was well socially connected and was always flirting and hitting on me, etc. I liked her as a friend but was a little annoyed by it and made a mistake by rejecting her harshly ("not in a million years") and she got really pissed and completely cut me off from the social circle where she had influence.
Never reject them if you can benefit from them or if they can harm you in any way; keep them as orbiters just like women do with chodes