Appreciate the feedback from everyone.
I definitely understand rationale behind the Next. Are flakes disrespectful? Absolutely. If flagrant, or ongoing, there's no question that it's best to keep it moving.
That said, here's why I believe nexting a soft flake is the wrong play.
1. It is not game over until she goes radio silence. If she's responding, the game is still on.
2. You've already invested time and energy getting your foot in the door. From an ROI perspective, I'd rather invest more and potentially get a win, rather than make the whole thing a total write off.
Case & point, I had a Swedish 9 flake on me twice last week. I felt frustrated, but kept my cool, and was able to get her out for a drink, which turned into a Swedish massage, followed by dome. Had I not checked my ego at the door, I would have missed out on this incredible experience.
3. The main reason; A woman is literally a different person after you fuck her. Her response time goes from hours/days, to mere minutes. You get bumped up to first class service & attention, while everyone else is still back there in coach. She behaves affectionately & sweetly. It's good to have standards, but it's just not accurate to judge a womans character pre-bang.
Are flakes disrespectful? Yes, completely. But deep down, there's a girl inside of her aching to act right for the right guy. Better to be that guy.
I definitely understand rationale behind the Next. Are flakes disrespectful? Absolutely. If flagrant, or ongoing, there's no question that it's best to keep it moving.
That said, here's why I believe nexting a soft flake is the wrong play.
1. It is not game over until she goes radio silence. If she's responding, the game is still on.
2. You've already invested time and energy getting your foot in the door. From an ROI perspective, I'd rather invest more and potentially get a win, rather than make the whole thing a total write off.
Case & point, I had a Swedish 9 flake on me twice last week. I felt frustrated, but kept my cool, and was able to get her out for a drink, which turned into a Swedish massage, followed by dome. Had I not checked my ego at the door, I would have missed out on this incredible experience.
3. The main reason; A woman is literally a different person after you fuck her. Her response time goes from hours/days, to mere minutes. You get bumped up to first class service & attention, while everyone else is still back there in coach. She behaves affectionately & sweetly. It's good to have standards, but it's just not accurate to judge a womans character pre-bang.
Are flakes disrespectful? Yes, completely. But deep down, there's a girl inside of her aching to act right for the right guy. Better to be that guy.