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I wound up switching majors midway and lost a whole bunch of credits, and went to a school out of state. Trust me, it's my biggest regret. College is totally messed up. You're expected to make lifelong decisions about your life when you're only 17 years old
Don't be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes and have regrets. The thing is to learn from those mistakes and never repeat them.
I agree that when we're young we have to make big life decisions that will affect us for years. Decisions have consequences. When we're young, we're devoid of wisdom, common sense, and a grasp of reality. For all our lives, we've lived in safe air-conditioned buildings. For the most part, we've never had to get up from bed and forced to work or end up
starving. We've never known the meaning of a day of hard work or how money works. Our helicopter parents have built bubbles around our lives. We're wholly ignorant of the hunger, deception, misery, and deprivation around us.
I'm not sure if this pertains to American culture, but idealistic bulls*** is fed to us at a young age. So-called "conventional wisdom" isn't really all that wise.
The only person that you can trust in the world is yourself.
The most important person in this world is yourself. This may be tough to swallow, but most of the people you know don't really care about you. They don't want you to win.
Envy and jealousy always follow success.
If you get thrown out on the street, how many people will give you some money to buy food? How many people would buy you a cup of coffee if you're homeless or offer you to stay over? Human relationships in America are pretty shallow. It is in adversity, hardships, fights, battles, troubled times, and war that you see the true side of people.
There are very few truly good people in the world When the s*** hits the fan, you'll see few, if any, people standing by you. You have to learn how to be strong, so strong that you can stand by yourself.
Don't take advice from people who have nothing to lose from the decisions you make.
Decisions have consequences. More often than not, people will try to turn you into a saint. An altruistic being who self-sacrifices for the good of society. They want you to be a good person. I'm not saying that that's bad or isn't something noble to try to achieve, but you have to look out for yourself. Most times, it really won't help your situation out that much and might make it worse. (e.g. going into $200,000 debt to get an art degree from a private liberal arts college.) Everybody is an expert on everything these days. People give out opinions like they're giving advice. They read an article off the NYT or USA Today, and, suddenly, they're qualified to give advice.
Here's a rule of thumb I use whenever I want to achieve something: look at people who've actually achieved those goals; read biographies of great men who've achieved great things.
For instance, let's say you want to become a millionaire. You have no idea about business or money, so you wonder where to begin. Would you take advice from your stockbroker? Hell no! That guy makes pity hourly wages. Is he a millionaire? No. Well, why would you listen to him? How about reading up on how Rockefeller learned the power of interest as a teenager? Ever heard of MJ DeMarco? He wanted to get rich while still relatively young, so guess what? He read up on people who made their fortunes when they were still young!
Taking advice from your high school counselor is like taking weight-lose advice from the world's fattest man; obviously, whatever he's been doing hasn't been working for him, or otherwise he'd be jet-sailing in his million-dollar jet airplane around the world.
Know what the f**k you're getting yourself into before you get started.
People live robotic lives, never questioning themselves. They go through the motions of everyday life. The worst life to live is a normal life. One day, you will die and be forgotten forever. You will either go out with a whimper, or a bang. You choose.