Quote: (09-12-2014 01:21 PM)not_dead_yet Wrote:
"In 2014, marriage is still the best economic arrangement for raising a family, but in most other senses it is like adding shit mustard to a shit sandwich. If an alien came to earth and wanted to find a way to make two people that love each other change their minds, I think he would make them live in the same house and have to coordinate every minute of their lives."
That got a chuckle out of me.
Scott Adams recognizes some Red Pill elements, but ultimately is so steeped in Feminism, the Feminine Imperative & also the current nihilistic brainwashing that he completely misses several points:
First of all - he is a successful famous millionaire who currently looks like this:
Second he made the error of marrying a 37 year old mother of 2 children at age 49:
Sure - he was more overweight then etc., but if he was somewhat Game-savvy he could have easily found a 20-something girl with little issues who would have loved to stay together with him.
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I don't think traditional marriage is going away anytime soon. But it probably isn't a coincidence that there are more single and divorced people than ever. Traditional marriage is the biggest obstacle to happiness in the United States. I give it twenty years before society acknowledges it to be a bad fit for modern times.
In the future I think you will see organized groups of "friends" that share duties to make all of their lives easier. One friend might enjoy raising kids and hate working a traditional job, so that friend stays home and does childcare for several single parents in return for a share of the collective income of the group. That is just an example, but you can see how one might engineer a better system than marriage.
If you disagree with anything I've written today, look around the next time you are on vacation. When you see couples vacationing with friends they usually look happy. When you see a married couple having dinner together - just the two of them for the ten-thousandth time - they both look like they came from a funeral.
Marriage is probably a great solution for 20% of the public. The rest of us need better systems.
The reason why his marriage sucked:
- indoctrinated into thinking that being a sensitive wuss was the way to go
- married a single mother past the wall 37 and with 2 kids
- she was not attracted to him physically
- he has no Game and refuses to learn - probably has read about it but discarded it
- he thinks that you have to have the same hobbies and interests and share them with your spouse - who cares about that? Share the time you have with passion, fuck, drink some wine and enjoy each other's company - most of the day is sleep, work and other interests anyway. But of course since his wife did not enjoy fucking him and having quality time with him, then he did not so either.
Marriage 1.0 is not dead, but Marriage 2.0 and 3.0 should die. And "communal living" or some kind of bat-shit-crazy polyamory is not the answer. Neither is Brave New World free fornication. You can bet your ass off that the utmost elite of the world adheres to marriage 1.0 if only for pure preservation. The destructive tendencies he experienced are for the lower masses.
His perception on feminism speaks volumes:
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I don't believe in equal rights for women; women should have a few extra rights compared to men because women take on the greater responsibility for reproduction.
Fuck off Dilbert.
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When any group of people takes on extra responsibility, society is often willing to grant those folks some extra rights. That's why a military drone pilot is legally allowed to take the life of an innocent child that happens to be in the same car as a terrorist.
No - that is just bullshit propaganda by people who have watched too much "Homeland" and believe every crap about the official 9/11 narrative. The "collateral damage" of drone strikes is 97%! I don't believe it is right to kill one innocent to take out a suspected terrorist. Go hire some assassins and snuff him out personally - there are plenty of danger-loving competent guys willing to go on such a mission. Give them 200.000$ to do it instead of the drone and the missiles. Drone strikes should be reserved for military targets only and not the ability to bomb a building where one person MIGHT OR MIGHT NOT be in it. And let me not start about the fact of questioning whether the person should be assassinated at all and for what reason.
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So in my view, feminists are too conservative. They should be asking for superior rights, not equal rights. I think everyone reading this blog agrees with the feminist goals of, for example, equal pay for equal work, and the idea that women should be able to walk down the street without feeling threatened. Off hand, I can't think of any feminist goal that is unreasonable. There are real questions on how one measures pay gaps and whatnot, and how one approaches a particular problem, but those are details. Feminists have done a great service for humanity by aggressively improving the situation for women. I'm a fan of their work.
I take it back - the guy is beyond Blue Pill - he is the ultimate White Knight Leftist Male Feminist Idiot!
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My point in all of this is that feminism is sexist by design. It has to be that way to be politically effective. You need a big, bad enemy because without it you can't generate the kind of change you need. I don't disagree with the strategy because it works, and historically it was in the service of a good cause.
But the long term risk with any good cause is that it can accidentally evolve into the evil it was designed to thwart. I think we are at or near that turning point with feminism.
He only acknowledges that there might be a little problem with feminism going slightly overboard. You think? Dilbert in all honesty you should be raped by Dogbert and drowned in Wally's coffee cup. You deserve your lot of working in a cubicle of hell.
I like his cartoons, but god damn, he is so thoroughly indoctrinated that there is no hope for him in this life.