I'm learning boxing, and draw female nudes. The first is "macho" (for want of a better word), and the second shows I have a creative and sexual side. It should come in handy one day too when trying to bed a new woman. It worked in Titanic!
Barry
Quote: (08-29-2014 04:34 PM)cmrocks Wrote:
Road cycling? Are you serious? Maybe it's different where you live but I've never in my life seen a girl attracted to the spandex-clad, road bike look. Everyone I know, besides the cyclists themselves, make fun of those guys.
Quote:Quote:
The biggest DHV is doing what you want and what interests you and not giving a fuck what anyone thinks.
Quote: (08-29-2014 04:39 PM)BarryInSF Wrote:
I'm learning boxing, and draw female nudes. The first is "macho" (for want of a better word), and the second shows I have a creative and sexual side. It should come in handy one day too when trying to bed a new woman. It worked in Titanic!
Quote: (08-29-2014 04:34 PM)cmrocks Wrote:
Road cycling? Are you serious? Maybe it's different where you live but I've never in my life seen a girl attracted to the spandex-clad, road bike look. Everyone I know, besides the cyclists themselves, make fun of those guys.
Quote: (08-30-2014 01:25 PM)BadgerHut Wrote:
Quote: (08-29-2014 04:34 PM)cmrocks Wrote:
Road cycling? Are you serious? Maybe it's different where you live but I've never in my life seen a girl attracted to the spandex-clad, road bike look. Everyone I know, besides the cyclists themselves, make fun of those guys.
I stopped for a sec at this, because I've observed that the "runner look" is not attractive to most girls, esp girls who can get weightroom guys. However swimmers tend to get lots of ass and have a quasi-perverted sexualized culture inside their sport to begin with.
I certainly haven't heard "everyone I know" making fun of cyclists. Cyclists have tone muscles and lots of stamina. I bet that in runner/cardio communities cyclists have mad value. Triathletes are going to give value to anybody who is excellent in any of the three disciplines. If they are trying to game at rugby parties it's going to be a different story.
Quote: (08-30-2014 07:29 AM)BadWolf Wrote:
Quote:Quote:The thing is you can make any hobby cool and interesting if you are an interesting person. Astrophysics can either be boring or completely awesome based on the personality. Most of the guys who do martial arts are BORING AS FVCK, they are worse than gamers in some respects because they hide their insecurities in fight training. They tend to think 'fighting/training' is what you 'should' do as a guy and theres nothing worse than hanging out with that dude. You can instantly tell when a guy is comfortable with himself and when he's trying to be something he's not.
The biggest DHV is doing what you want and what interests you and not giving a fuck what anyone thinks.
Poser: Why did you get into martial arts? Oh cause, it builds my muscles, its good for health and fitness and I can use it in the ring blah blah blah MMA blah blah BJJ
Me: Why did you get into martial arts? I was bullied as a kid and had my ribs kicked in and broken as a teenager.
Quote: (08-28-2014 10:01 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:
I searched and didn't see a thread on this particular topic. Has it been your experience that certain activities give you more DHV with women than others? For example, MMA champion vs video-game champion? I do triathlons and have observed DHV among the three disciplines as:
1. Cycling- By far the highest attraction value. Women will stop and stare when I zoom past in my spandex on my sleek road bike. Sometimes they will even approach when I'm standing around my bike before or after a ride.
2. Swimming- Second most DHV. Women appear to think good swimming ability is fairly masculine, especially if you have some muscle.
3. Running- In my experience, women respect someone who runs, especially women who also run, but it doesn't command as much doe-eyed attention as cycling and swimming.
Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
Quote: (08-30-2014 09:10 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
Quote: (08-28-2014 10:01 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:
I searched and didn't see a thread on this particular topic. Has it been your experience that certain activities give you more DHV with women than others? For example, MMA champion vs video-game champion? I do triathlons and have observed DHV among the three disciplines as:
1. Cycling- By far the highest attraction value. Women will stop and stare when I zoom past in my spandex on my sleek road bike. Sometimes they will even approach when I'm standing around my bike before or after a ride.
2. Swimming- Second most DHV. Women appear to think good swimming ability is fairly masculine, especially if you have some muscle.
3. Running- In my experience, women respect someone who runs, especially women who also run, but it doesn't command as much doe-eyed attention as cycling and swimming.
Carlos there is no way you're an American.
Kenny Powers and I disagree with you outright.
Quote: (08-31-2014 04:51 AM)Kieran Wrote:
I've done boxing since I was a kid, but rarely mention it with women, because with the types of women I like it seems to be more of a DLV, or at best neutral, due to the negative stereotypes of boxers in this country. However, if women that are already in my life see me train, or if the same types of women happen to be in the gym and see me train, then they seem to love it. In short, I think it's something that women need to see you do, rather than talk about, in order to spark attraction.
I think it's similar with language learning (although this is certainly not a DLV); far better for a woman to observe you speak a second language, than to talk about it.
Quote: (08-31-2014 12:16 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:
Agreed that you should do whatever you want, but it's good to know DHV's vs DLV's to know what to talk about with women. The classic, "How was your weekend?" is a DHV paradise.
DHV:
Travelling
Going to any new/popular restaurant, club, or event in the area
Going to baseball games (still don't understand why women like going to, but not watching, baseball games)
Playing any sport
Business meetings or working on your business (but not networking, I suspect, since everybody does that)
Doing anything fun that makes her feel FOMO