Hey guys,
I am having some real issues with inner game, confidence, and approaching. I know and understand the right beliefs - not being afraid of women, there's no harm in approaching, you won't know until you find out, i'm the prize, etc. - but I am having a hard time internalizing them and having them stick. I find that the minute I step into the club, my confidence declines and my AA increases. I tell myself I am the prize, but half way through an approach I start losing that mentality. What are some things you did to ensure your good beliefs and frames stuck to you? Did you practice anything, have any affirmations, etc? I'm committed to get this down, because it is decreasing the number of my approaches and the quality of my approaches. Please help.
I am having some real issues with inner game, confidence, and approaching. I know and understand the right beliefs - not being afraid of women, there's no harm in approaching, you won't know until you find out, i'm the prize, etc. - but I am having a hard time internalizing them and having them stick. I find that the minute I step into the club, my confidence declines and my AA increases. I tell myself I am the prize, but half way through an approach I start losing that mentality. What are some things you did to ensure your good beliefs and frames stuck to you? Did you practice anything, have any affirmations, etc? I'm committed to get this down, because it is decreasing the number of my approaches and the quality of my approaches. Please help.