OK, here's the scenario.
I met up with this girl I used to know back in college, to catch up and have drinks. It was not set up as a date from her point of view, in fact just a few weeks ago she saw me taking a cute girl on a date.
So we met up in a bar, had some drinks, talked, I didn't really "game" her, I only did basic stuff like kino, good listening, letting her talk, and DHV in the form of letting her know I just got laid with the previous cute girl, but was choosy enough to break it off with her.
As the night wore on, we went to a different bar, she started actually doing kino on me (letting our arms touch, leaning in and putting both hands on my arm), and I pretty much still only did basic game. I made a point of breaking off kino (especially when she initiated it) after a few seconds, and we had good, continuous, non-stop conversation.
Finally we go to a third bar, it's really late now, there's live music, and I don't remember exactly what transpired but I teased her about her growly smoker's voice (not how she sounded back in the day), and somehow she asked me to feel her abs, which were pretty hardcore. I did so and she whispered "you're trouble" in my ear with a grin. If it helps, she's an HB 7, in great shape and possible LTR material despite the growly voice (she quit smoking last year). Probably would be HB 8 if she had bigger boobs, she's got a great ass for a white chick.
So I'm thinking this is pretty hard to fuck up, I was not angling to sleep with her that night since she had just come back from a really long out-of-state trip that afternoon, and she was quite tired.
On the walk to her car, I had my arm around her waist, and she said "let's do this instead" and took my hand instead, interlocking our fingers. We kissed en route to her car, she drove me to my car, we made out some more then I went home.
Later that night she texted to see if i drove home OK, and I just said I was fine, and wanted to hang out with her closer to my house (we live about 50 minutes away).
SO... I think I'm in a great spot but I want to make sure I don't fuck this up somehow by being myself. She actually works a hospital night shift near my house, so I'm thinking the next step is to say "come over to my place after work" except she leaves work at 3 am.
Should I text to say "come over" at 3 am? Or try to set up a dinner date at my house where I can cook and it's a day off for her?
What should I NOT do that could fuck up all my good work so far?
I met up with this girl I used to know back in college, to catch up and have drinks. It was not set up as a date from her point of view, in fact just a few weeks ago she saw me taking a cute girl on a date.
So we met up in a bar, had some drinks, talked, I didn't really "game" her, I only did basic stuff like kino, good listening, letting her talk, and DHV in the form of letting her know I just got laid with the previous cute girl, but was choosy enough to break it off with her.
As the night wore on, we went to a different bar, she started actually doing kino on me (letting our arms touch, leaning in and putting both hands on my arm), and I pretty much still only did basic game. I made a point of breaking off kino (especially when she initiated it) after a few seconds, and we had good, continuous, non-stop conversation.
Finally we go to a third bar, it's really late now, there's live music, and I don't remember exactly what transpired but I teased her about her growly smoker's voice (not how she sounded back in the day), and somehow she asked me to feel her abs, which were pretty hardcore. I did so and she whispered "you're trouble" in my ear with a grin. If it helps, she's an HB 7, in great shape and possible LTR material despite the growly voice (she quit smoking last year). Probably would be HB 8 if she had bigger boobs, she's got a great ass for a white chick.
So I'm thinking this is pretty hard to fuck up, I was not angling to sleep with her that night since she had just come back from a really long out-of-state trip that afternoon, and she was quite tired.
On the walk to her car, I had my arm around her waist, and she said "let's do this instead" and took my hand instead, interlocking our fingers. We kissed en route to her car, she drove me to my car, we made out some more then I went home.
Later that night she texted to see if i drove home OK, and I just said I was fine, and wanted to hang out with her closer to my house (we live about 50 minutes away).
SO... I think I'm in a great spot but I want to make sure I don't fuck this up somehow by being myself. She actually works a hospital night shift near my house, so I'm thinking the next step is to say "come over to my place after work" except she leaves work at 3 am.
Should I text to say "come over" at 3 am? Or try to set up a dinner date at my house where I can cook and it's a day off for her?
What should I NOT do that could fuck up all my good work so far?