Quote: (06-19-2014 09:33 PM)TripleG Wrote:
Quote: (06-19-2014 06:09 AM)ohionukes Wrote:
Quote: (06-19-2014 01:48 AM)Doc_J Wrote:
Thanks for giving us young lads something worth to look for in our not so far future older age.
BTW what was the bar you were hanging out at?
The place literally said "Baar" over the door, right next to a bar called Protest, and a youth hostel I would definitely not recommend the bar I went to. Me and the 2 girls were literally the only customers there and the drinks were over priced. I have about 12 different bars/clubs on my list to check out so I will post a report when I am done.
Ohio, do you ever worry that you are too old to fit into many of these bars and feel out of your social circle when you step in and it's all 18-22 year old University Students. I know you mentioned banging the 18 year old but that was via online game and not social circle...
I am 35 years old and even at my age nowaday's when I travel I am forced to do a bit of research so as to avoid the places where the age factor is too big to comfortably overcome.
I definitely worry about that and try to do a lot of research ahead of time. I don't wear a suit, that would make me look even older, but I don't try to look or act like a 20 year old. I like EDM and club music (which means I can talk about it intelligently which gives me instant cool factor with girls who are into EDM), so I enjoy going for the music. One approach I use is to befriend a small group of guys that seem like nice kids. When they find out I am from america, they usually think that is pretty cool. Plus, they are just fun to party with. I am 50 but I look later 30s, so at least that helps a little.
Lets be honest, if a girl is at a club to sleep with a really young guy, I don't have much of a shot. Thats the reality most of the time. But if a girl is interested in an "older guy", being surrounded by nothing but 18-22 year old guys gives me value (unless of course the place is filled with old guys looking to score and then you will be lumped in with all the other creepers).
Who are the girls I hook up with? Surprisingly, it is not with girls in their 30s. Most girls in their 30s are still in denial about their plummeting value, and still cling to the belief that they can find another 30 something guy their age who will be their prince. And we all know this guys are looking for a 20 year old hard body. I get shot down by girls in their 30s a lot more than girls in their low 20s.
The girls I bang fall into two categories: smart girls tired of stupid guys their age, and alternative girls - girls with edge, probably tats, used to breaking societal norms, looking to try something different, maybe with daddy issues haha. So I look for these girls at the clubs - chicks with glasses, pushing the younger guys away on the dance floor, etc. I am very well educated so that gets me a lot play with these girls. Last night, I was at Club Hollywood in Tallinn and I had a 20 year 8+ walk up to me with her friend and she just bluntly asked me how old I was. I lied and said 40 since I can easily pull that off, and she didn't flinch and continued to chat me up. She was very aggressive, and I think she was the type of girl who liked more mature guys, so you never know. If I had a wing man, I think I could have closed on her, but I know she didn't want to leave her girlfriend. I am hoping for a random encounter tonight =)
Obviously, it gets harder when you get older, and you have to adjust. Your conversion ratio from club to sex will decrease. However, I am still amazed by the fact that as I get older (I have been in the game since I was 35) the age of the girls I hook up with hasn't changed. Personally, I would rather go home alone than bang a girl over 30 (unless she was a 8+), and I won't touch anything over 40. Quality means a lot more to me than quantity.
Thanks for the question - I was planning on open a new thread on this topic to compare notes with others, you just beat me to the punch.