Quote: (05-31-2014 02:00 AM)dog24 Wrote:
I have gotten so many: you must do this all the time, all the girls must throw themselves at you, you look like a guy who only wants sex, i dont want to be just another one of your toy girls.... that its not funny anymore.
So they think you're a player?
Because those aren't words that women use to describe guys they want a long term relationship with.
I don't think you're reading the situation right.
Plus you aren't giving us a lot of facts
- how you meet them - on and off line?
- when you meet them - day or night game
- what country - Might be different in lesser developed countries
- what kind of girls these are - Theory goes that chicks below you, feel that they might get used and resist. Chicks that are on your level, want relationships.
- what kind of image you use - You dressed like a prep or a Jersey Shore guy
- what your game is like - Witty and sarcastic, stoic, or Dude/Bro!
I'm guessing that you're going a little bit faster than the chick. And even though she's digging you, she realizes that if she continues, she's going to be fucking. And she's not ready for that. Her Anti-Slut Defense/Last Minute Resistance is kicking in because you're *too* smooth. She's not "lost in emotion". She's able to come up for air, look around, and realize that you unsnapped her bra even though she's still wearing a shirt #truestory
And you expressing that you're only down for casual sex means as much to her, as her telling you "We're not fucking tonight." (for those who can't read between the lines, she's ignoring whatever you say and focusing on her actions based on her experience in dealing with the opposite sex)
Don't know if you've giving off "potential boyfriend vibes" or not, or your "alpha" is making her submissive.
In either case, consistently banging chicks that only want to bang and nothing more goes back to screening. In my experience, it's not often that you get a one night stand that is truly a one night stand. If your stroke game is on point, or you're just a good dude - that usually opens up additional bangs. Additional bangs really allow a chick to get her feelings involved and basically ignore how much of non-monoogamous guy you are.
WIA