Quote: (03-03-2014 09:06 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:
Damn I was paying 18,000.00Php per month for a one room apartment that was no where near as nice in Davao. It included everything though, power, aircon, internet, cable tv and maids to clean it once a day.
I'm staying at the Jun N Dell Appartelle, and it's fantastic. 20,000 Pesos a month (about $450 bucks), all bills paid, and a maid comes and cleans the place every day. I have my own kitchen, it's one of the larger units, the place is totally secure, there's two guards at all times guarding the entrance to the neighborhood, and best of all, it's pretty much walking distance to Ayala Abreeza Mall, Victoria Mall, Gaisano Mall, and to SM City Lanang. You can also just take a jeepney if you don't like walking, they're basically free (8 pesos).
I was paying 1200 pesos a day at my hotel in Iloilo City, and that place did not even have wifi (it advertised as having wifi, but it never worked). At the Jun N Dell Appartelle, you have THREE wifi connections, so if any one goes down, at least one of the other two usually works. I have never had a problem getting online since I've been here (a week now)
Best of all, Yukimix is close by, I eat there most days, in Ayala-Abreeza mall. It's a buffet restaurant for about 11 or 13 bucks a meal, which is great for the quality of the food. I can eat salmon and meats every day, plus fruits and veggies, like I do back home, and best of all, their restroom has toilet paper, which is a dealbreaker for me whenever I go out to eat. I mean, if they didn't think to put toilet paper in the restroom, where else are they cutting corners, right? Think about it.
There's a restaurant right next to the Ayala Abreeza food court (the open terrace food court), as you walk out, the first one on the left, and it serves good food as well, the spaghetti, fish, and chicken breast meals there are all well made. They even come with a complimentary cold coffee and they have current newspapers for you to read. Those are my two favorite places so far. Usually, when I'm adventurous in the Philippines about new places to eat, I end up paying more than I would in the U.S., for lower quality food, or decent quality food (like a whole chicken) coupled with a restroom which is little more than a hole in the ground...and you pray you remembered to pack the toilet paper.
Also, regarding girls, giving out your number works. I gave mine out to three girls in the last week (all mestizas, I prefer the mestiza look over the pure Visayan look), and I got four girls messaging me back (one girl did not reply, two did, and so did two of their friends who thought I was handsome and asked for my number).
The two extra girls were not up to my standards, though, but in any case, giving out your number works. I ignored both "referrals." Getting the girl to actually go out on a date is another story, though. I haven't been able to do that yet (I've been in Davao a week). I can go two or three days without seeing a girl I'd want to ask out here, though. I've given my number out to three so far. Of the two girls that I gave my number to and messaged with, the first one (18 yr old) flaked on the date (but she did give me a heads up, and it was because of a downpour) and the second one (20 yr old) flaked as well (gave me a heads up as well), but the first one, she's been messaging me every day since. She messages me good morning when I wake up, and chats with me through the day. Today she texted me, "give my regards to your macho body," lol, and she let me know she's thinking of me. She's an accounting student, gorgeous face, gorgeous body, curvy with petite breasts, just how I like them, a solid 7.5 to me. She seems pretty sheltered, which, if it's the case, is awesome, since it's what I'm looking for, so, we'll see if that leads anywhere. I don't mind the extra effort if the girl's worth it, and until then, more day game.
Since I've arrived in the Philippines (12 days ago), I've had 10 or 11 girls offer to be my girlfriend, and one offer to be my wife (kind of). I've also had several guys offer themselves to me, lol, there are effeminate men here EVERYWHERE, why that is, I don't know. The girl that offered to be my wife was a solid 7 (we talked for a couple of minutes, and then she goes, "Sir, it is my dream to marry a man like you," so I count that as a quasi-proposal, lol), but she was a mall worker, and I could possibly work with that, but I'd prefer a nurse or a student (I'm looking for a long term thing). Also, she was in Iloilo City, and after being there a couple of days, I decided it wasn't viable, from a logistics standpoint (no reliable wifi and the air pollution was brutal). Davao simply works much better.
Here's an actual example of a meal out in Davao for me. I go out to a restaurant, to have my meats, fruits, and veggies, take a seat, and the waitress comes up to me.
Waitress: "Hello, sir."
Me: "Hey."
Waitress: "Sir, where are you from?"
Me: "Texas."
Waitress: "Oh, sir, are you here alone?"
Me: "Yeah."
Waitress: "Sir, are you single?"
Me: "Yes," I smile
Waitress: "Sir, uhmmm...can we be friends?"
Me: "Thanks, I'm just dropping in for a meal, I like the food here, I need to get my proteins in." I point to my bicep.
Waitress: "Yes sir, you have a nice body." She giggles. "Sir...uhmmm...my manager sent me. She wants to know if you would like to know her?"
I take a look around.
"Who's your manager?"
She points to her manager, a 5 or 6.
I smile, "Haha, thanks, I'm just dropping in for a meal."
Waitress: "Yes sir."
I finish eating, then go to pay my bill. The manager, the waitress, and two other girls (5 or 6's) are standing around the cash register, doing waitress things. One of the other two girls speaks up:
Waitress # 2: "Sir, I am single!" She's giggling.
Me: I smile, "Haha."
Waitress # 3: "I am single too, sir!" They all giggle.
That's a normal lunch here. Happened on a Jeepney too, (3 girls let me know they're single, and they also let me know their friend (a small gay guy) was single too after I just smiled at them because they were 5's or 6's), and also at a mall sales stand of some kind, 3 or 4 girls that time and two gay guys, but the gay guys didn't offer themselves to me that time, one of them just told me I have beautiful eyes.
Oh, it was funny, one of the gay guys goes, "do you like our friend, haha, the fat one!?!?"
I look around at the group of girls and go, "which fat one?" The girls go, "her!" and they point and everyone giggles. The girl was actually overweight, slightly, but the thing is, I'd become so used to real obesity in the U.S. that this girl being slightly overweight hadn't even registered in my brain.
Anyhow, Davao is fun times. I'm working on a novel, so I'm staying busy, and it's great to experience the city and its challenges, girl-wise. About the nightlife, though, I went down to Torres (Prime Square), and asked around about E Vibe, but was told it was closed? Maybe people were confused by what I was asking? The English here is not always perfect, especially with the folks in lower status jobs, like the service sector. Not sure, I was wanting to check out the place, since the forum recommended it, but I couldn't find it. I'm really hoping there's more to Davao weekend nightlife than Torres, because I was disappointed. It's not a deal-breaker for me as far as Davao, there's enough day-game opportunities to make the city worthwhile anyways, and logistics here are great, but still.
Any good weekend night spots from anyone here on the ground in Davao? The whole, "sitting around in my own table" thing seems somewhat odd, I'd prefer a dance club...