Anyone else not care much for blowjobs? I do see the advantages you gain in getting one, and I've had a number of girls give it a shot, but for whatever reason, it didn't do anything for me.

So, with that said, how do I compensate for that? Having her give you a BJ is a show of dominance, so maybe go with doggy style more often? Pick her up more often, toss her around a bit?

would you say you've had alot of them? I was of the same opinion as yourself for many years until I started meeting high notch count sluts and fat girls. I changed my opinion after that.

OP sounds trollish.

"would you say you've had alot of them?"

I'd say about 6 different women have tried, including a fat chick. I've cut off the others before they even tried. I haven't been with a ton of chicks - many beta years stuck in dead end relationships, which may have played a part in my current situation.

Definitely not trolling here - just new to this whole thing. Hence why I'm posting in this subforum...

This sounds a bit troll like OP but i'll give it a shot:

Honestly for the longest time I fapped and BJ's weren't working for me, I'd usually let the girl do her thing then smash her out. I never, literally never blew my load with her doing all the work giving me head I'd have to help along then I'd blow.

I stopped fapping and fapping to porn....holy shit have things changed. I can finally blow my load getting head and man is it an experience.

IDK if you fap or not OP but I suggest not doing it for awhile then let a girl work her magic.

OP may be a troll but...

I have heard some dudes dont like getting head before. I would assume they never had it done right, like a girl may not get her mouth wet enough or not apply the proper rhythm to get u to shoot your load.

I have gotten bad head before where I tell the girl to stop after a min and I feel teaching her how to do it right would be too labor intensive so I bang her instead.

And then ive had girls literally blow my mind with their head skills to the point I dont even want to fuck them because their dome is so much better.

I honestly didn't like getting blow jobs up until my early 20s

Then I met an older woman who blew so good it felt as if my soul was leaving my body.

Then again...this is his 4th post and he starts a thread like this??

I used to not like them until I received really good ones. Maybe the girls you're getting these from are not good at it.

It's understandable that someone could think this, but its simply because you haven't had a good one yet.

When you do, you'll change your mind. It's like getting laid for the first time again.

You might like it better if she massages your prostate

First...stop with the accusations of trolling. It's a legit question. Some of you accuse him of trolling, then in the next sentence say you've experienced the same thing. I have a very good friend that doesn't have any interest in oral sex - receiving or giving. In his opinion, it's just something that takes time away from FUCKING. Personally, it's always been difficult for me to nut that way, though I love blowjobs purely for the visual. I agree that the key may be getting chicks that get down there and try to make you cum, as opposed to those that are just doing it to get it out of the way...

Quote: (04-04-2014 06:19 PM)JosephdeMaistre Wrote:  

Definitely not trolling here - just new to this whole thing. Hence why I'm posting in this subforum...

The man has a point - if you are going to troll, why go for the newbie forum?

I like them but have been told by many girls I don't like them as much as other guys do.

If you can, target some girls 26-34. I don't want to get political, but during the Lewinski scandal the entire country ran around saying 'oral sex isn't sex'. This window of girls was just coming of age in 1998, and they heard the message loud and clear. On average they are better than the women older than them any WAY better than the younger girls.

I'm not a fan of blow jobs either, mainly became most of the girls I've been with sucked at giving them (no pun intended). I'd rather just fuck, or hope for a good hand job while making out. I don't see anything wrong with you, and if you feel it's a waste of time, try experimenting with different positions.

If you don't like BJs it's because you're not getting them the right way.

Get one standing, with her on her knees worshipping your cock. Hold her hair in one hand and reach over her shoulders and finger her. Have her gag on your cock until slobber spills onto her breasts.

Cum on her face then scoop the cum up with a spoon off her face and feed it to her.

"Good girl"

Quote: (04-04-2014 07:56 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

If you don't like BJs it's because you're not getting them the right way.

Get one standing, with her on her knees worshipping your cock. Hold her hair in one hand and reach over her shoulders and finger her. Have her gag on your cock until slobber spills onto her breasts.

Cum on her face then scoop the cum up with a spoon off her face and feed it to her.

"Good girl"

That's a good one, but the one I always tell them to do is:

Get on the bed on knees and all fours like a a dog. Ass in the air. She can go from there and use her arms to work the shaft as she blows.

This way you get the best view of the ass. It makes you want to go behind them and fuck them doggy.

I'd say this is my two step combo to get the best out of doggy.

I've had a lot of different girls give me bjs. At best they feel ok, but never as good as penetration and they never make me come.

He's not a troll.

One of my main side pieces gives me head and only head. She gives the best head ever. And she has a boyfriend who does not like blow jobs. These men do exist. It's weird I know. I don't understand it but its real.

Why do I get the feeling a lot of guys on this forum have experience with writing Erotica.

I used to get bored by them because when I was younger I was always in such a hurry. Now nothing is better than coming home after work, sitting in my favorite chair, and getting my dick sucked for a while. I like just watching her do her thing to please me.

I would normally like them (who wouldn't?), but too many chicks brag about being good at it and then rake your dick with their teeth.

I think OP just needs to get a blow job from one girl who is absolutely amazing at them, and he'll change his mind about this. I think 99% of girls are mediocre at them. I've only ever had 1 amazing one before.

Quote: (04-04-2014 06:32 PM)azulsombra Wrote:  

I would assume they never had it done right, like a girl may not get her mouth wet enough or not apply the proper rhythm to get u to shoot your load.

The proper rhythm part is key in my opinion, combined with the ability to deep throat, at least a bit.

If they can deep throat, but aren't that good at BJ's overall (read: lack the rhythm skills), I lay them on their back, prop their head up with a pillow, turn their head to the side and plow on in real deep-like.

You're essentially fucking the girls throat. It never lets me down. I then blast away in their mouth without warning.

It's about the power trip man