What I think about sometimes is where is the 80/20 in MMA?
Don't get me wrong, I'm not asking where to find the shortcuts that will allow you to match up with a pro fighter who trains 6 days a week, as that's obviously ludicrous.
But sometimes I wonder how much sense it makes to spend your whole life trying to master fighting. The reality is that most people are never going to need their MMA skills in a real situation. They may need them a little bit, but they probably will never go all out even if someone comes at them, and people who do end up using them will use them very rarely.
On top of that, going hard in practice all the time definitely leads to ocasisional injuries (so it especially seems with bjj) and can be hard on your body.
Sure, MMA is a very useful skillset to have. I'm a big believer in cultivating the ability to defend your personal safety and honor and that of the people you care about. And of course the skills give you that confidence in yourself and at least some regular training is great for keeping your mind and body in shape. The constant competition can probably even keep your hormones roaring strong.
But unless it's really a passion of yours in life, how much time and effort should the average guy put into it? I think every guy should know how to fight and every guy needs a regimen to stay in shape, so training in some MMA makes sense. For the most part, it seems like someone who knows a little bit of boxing, knows a little bit of ground game, and is good physical shape can manhandle most people who don't know anything at all (which is a lot of guys).
I'm certainly not any kind of authority on the matter, but from the outside looking in, the deadly standup combo seems like muay thai with a boxer's hands. And then BJJ and/or wrestling for handling yourself on the ground.
But at what point do you think it's "enough" to be able to handle yourself in 80% of situations without being overkill? And how much regular training would keep you in decent shape and keep your skills up to par without spending an impractical amount of time and causing wear and tear on your joints.
I'm not really venturing any opinion on this - I'm legitimately curious about your guys' thoughts. To the experts out there, if you were going to "hack" fighting like we try to hack everything else in life, what would you study, to what extent, and what type of lifelong regimen would you put together for keeping yourself sharp enough?
Quote: (12-23-2013 05:51 AM)houston Wrote:
Edmund I got into a fight with a wrestler in high school. He probably had at least 70 pounds on me. We threw a few punches then he threw me on the ground and attempted to hit me with his knee or something. His leg was raised so I started punching his balls over and over lol. Honor is out the window unless you're in a ring, especially if you're a lot bigger than me.
This idea gets thrown around quite a bit and I had the same thought; I pride myself on being a pretty dirty fighter. I'm not the type of guy to "step outside," as to me fighting is not a gentleman sport. To me it's not sport at all. No matter who I'm fighting, I always make it a point to overestimate them, and no matter why I'm fighting, I fight for survival. I've won a lot of fights or gotten myself out of bad situations just by being more extreme.
That said, and with only survival in mind, honor does still have a place in fighting if for no other reason that you can put yourself in grave danger by ignoring the "rules" of the streets. This is really dependent on situation - if some loonball attacks you while you're walking down the road minding your own business than by all means use every dirty trick in the book to incapacitate him and get the fuck out of there. Same if you get jumped by multiple people.
But if some asshole has his mind set on brawling you at a bar because he feels like disrespected - even if he is in the wrong and you've tried to get out of fighting - it might be a bad idea to start placing nut shots, for instance. The sole reason is that such a move can quickly escalate you from facing one formidable attacker to having all his buddies practicing football punts to your dome while you roll into a ball on the ground.
In streetfights, people are embarassingly quick to jump in as it is - that's true. But part of defending yourself properly in a real situation is not enticing the crowd to wield their mob mentality. You've got to stay aware of what they're about too and fight accordingly. Of course, I tend to roll solo; if you cruise with a lot of backup it becomes less of an issue.
Another thing to keep in mind is that every time you bring it up a notch, there's a chance you'll entice your opponent to do the same. An eye gouge might freak him out and get you out of a sticky situation, but now you've just raised the bar on the violence, and if the guy is not only bigger but also tougher and meaner, well, now he might not feel too bad about raking your eyeball right out of your skull or curb-stomping you.
Just like you could pull a blade on someone, but now they'll feel justified to pull a blade or even a gun.
Not saying to never use these tactics, but keeping some of the basic ideas of honor in mind when brawling can go as far towards protecting you as the ahole you're scrapping with.
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