Quote: (10-22-2013 07:05 PM)mbare Wrote:
I got her number luckily before they left, but she never responded to any text.
The biggest and most disappointing thing though, was getting turned away from clubs because we weren't on a list. The clubs weren't THAT full and we even went out earlier, but again got turned away. Never in all of my travels has a city turned away tourist because they weren't on a fucking list. Do you have any thoughts on this?
First of all, very rarely have I ever managed any kind of progress with a Swedish girl if there was no bang or at least a blowjob involved in the first night. It's ridiculous, but they are just so nice, they give their numbers out to any guy and then at the end of the day, don't give much of a fuck unless they have invested in you too.
Second, the lists. You should've went very early. For example, places like white room, I tend to show up there around 1.30 if I'm not on the list. It's before the rush of the people from the other clubs at 2.30-3 and usually if you're nice and dressed well, they'll even let you in. But I had the same issue with an Indian friend of mine. They'd not let him in.
In general, yes, Stockholm clubs in the center are very cliquey. If you're looking for places easier to get into, try places in Södermalm.
And regarding the OP: I'd not worry about the winter too much. People still go out and clubs are still full. IMO its even easier in the winter since every single girl is looking for some excitement in her life and is bored as hell. In the summer she is getting hit up by her friends to go do fun stuff every single day, so her even making any time for you will be a big investment that they mostly don't want to make.
If you're worried about the lack of sunlight on your own body, supplement with Vitamin D + hit the gym regularly.