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05-02-2011, 03:30 PM
I once told-off a girl after she pissed me off "fuck off psycho bitch...you mean shit to me"........she banged me days later as a result.
I was not trying to bang her, she actually did piss me off.
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05-02-2011, 03:34 PM
As with not being needy, you cant fake not being a nice guy as Mixx illustrates. You actually have to get there.
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05-02-2011, 05:08 PM
interesting stats
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05-02-2011, 05:33 PM
feels good to just stay in there for a few seconds after. Pull off the condom, roll over, and have a great sleep
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05-02-2011, 09:40 PM
Skyyjohn has some very good alpha male shit on his website...good video
nice guys don't get laid..been there,done that.
Thank god I woke up some years ago..
Chicks need to be on rotation like a Netflix queue
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05-03-2011, 05:58 AM
I have been a nice guy for most of the time (and thats why, super low on game)
I'd love more anecdotes from your end... it actually is inspiring!
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05-03-2011, 09:34 AM
old nemesis, did you ejaculate inside her while she was on a pill or did you use the pullout?
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05-03-2011, 03:02 PM
Wow a woman said something right for once.
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05-03-2011, 03:37 PM
Is it possible to have a problem at the opposite end of the spectrum? That is, to be too uncaring and unfriendly? What is the fine line between disinterested and uninterested? How do you demonstrate interest in an "alpha" manner without appearing needy? This seems like a paradox to me, although I'm certain it isn't - it's likely a distinction I fail to grasp. (We psychopaths aren't very good at expressing genuine emotions.)
I recognize this question is similar to one asked in a previous thread by sirseducer, but he was asking "how to not be needy" while I am asking "how does one express interest properly."
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05-03-2011, 05:12 PM
Amen to that.
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05-03-2011, 05:30 PM
Quote: (05-03-2011 05:23 PM)kickboxer Wrote:
Quote: (05-03-2011 03:37 PM)thecrazyfool Wrote:
Is it possible to have a problem at the opposite end of the spectrum? That is, to be too uncaring and unfriendly? What is the fine line between disinterested and uninterested? How do you demonstrate interest in an "alpha" manner without appearing needy? This seems like a paradox to me, although I'm certain it isn't - it's likely a distinction I fail to grasp. (We psychopaths aren't very good at expressing genuine emotions.)
I recognize this question is similar to one asked in a previous thread by sirseducer, but he was asking "how to not be needy" while I am asking "how does one express interest properly."
you demonstrate interest through how you interact with them. Some examples are strong eye contact, talking to them, casually inviting them into your fun and exciting and adventurous life(for instance, when i take a girl to a party i simply say "hey im going to a party tuesday why dont you come along" or "hey lets get lunch".) Your body language and touching lets them know you are attracted to them. Are you really a psychopath?Being playful with them and keeping the conversation fun shows interests.
just do all of the above without exuding neediness.
Exactly. Lose the emotes and push/pull to keep them guessing. They might think you are a nice guy but something tells them there is more to you than that... hamster wheel spins and suddenly she wants to get to know you better. You just have to continue the cycle and balance between asshole and nice guy.
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05-03-2011, 06:38 PM
The pull and pray method has failed me big time in the past. I don't recommend it.
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05-04-2011, 11:21 AM
Hmmm... okay, interesting. This is helpful.
I'm not a psychopath in the "Dexter the serial killer" sense - I have what's known as "latent psychotic tendencies," which means that I have most of the traits of a psychopath without meeting the full DSM-IV criteria. Sort of like an Incredible Hulk thing - when I'm not on medication or under a lot of stress, I undergo a "psychotic break" where my patterns of thinking radically change and detach from reality. Many of these traits, such as lack of empathy and narcissism, are still present to a degree in my "normal" state, but serve to help rather than hinder me. One of the traits of a psychopath is their limited capacity for genuine emotion, which is why I brought it up. I only understand concepts like "love" and "trust" on an intellectual level, because I've never experienced them in my life. Luckily, since most of my problems originate from environmental rather than genetic sources, I may still be "cured." Receiving such things from others allows me to unlock new levels of understanding - hence my "pedestalization" of relationships and approval, as such things are very rare in my world, and hence incredibly valuable to me. Since I can't ask those around me about concepts that are intuitive to others, I go on the Internet and anonymously ask advice from those who are successful in the things that I want to be successful in too.
Anyway, enough about that. Back to bashing so-called "nice guys." And I got a star to go with my -3 reputation! Yay!
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05-04-2011, 12:13 PM
@thecrazyfool
Also, for fun and interest, maybe you could relate the most psychopathic / sociopathic thing that you've ever done. I guess it'll be up to us to decide if its true. But do your best to stick to the truth... I mean no disrespect in requesting this. Im genuinely interested and would appreciate anything that you can offer...
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05-04-2011, 12:33 PM
I think the main reason is women view nice guys as being punks. The associated a$$holes with being being tuff and protective.
LOL, i know several ugly a$$ dudes with i dont give a f^ck attitudes who have pulled a lot of broads.