Quote: (08-24-2013 10:45 PM)chexmix Wrote:
I'm never a dick to girls, I find the ones that are interested in sex. I don't manipulate or lie, I just put up my desire to have sex with them and the ones who want to have sex with me will respond back. Being straightforward and honest is a much easier route for me at least.
edit: I guess when I reread OP's post I should clarify, I am not trying to be an asshole on purpose. I may seem like a dick to some people but everything I do is just how I honestly feel. It seems that OP it actively trying to be a dick because it works for him when picking up girls but it feels like an act of some sort.
Why do you feel the need to be a dick op?
This (yes I'm necroing but its not that old of a thread)
There really is no need to "lose your cool"to a woman. Pretty much you just "silent next" her. Basically, if she is being shitty, you just stop whatever it is your doing, and leave. Do not contact her for a few days, enjoy your life, get some work done, work on other girls. Then contact her again for a bang at your place once a week. do this for a couple of weeks (just contacting her for bangs once a week) then if her attitude improves, you can resume spending your time with her outside of the bedroom. if her attitude DOESN'T improve, then she is just forever relegated to a FB untill she decides to move on.
Don't throw out her number though, instead just add her to your facebook as a friend. and forget about her for 3months. once evevery three months, check her profile and see if she's just got out of a relationship (usually she'll leave you because she found a beta dude to be her boyfriend/monogamous/whatever) and usually she'll get tired of him because, he's a boring beta pushover that showers her with affection (I saw this first had with a male buddy of mine. . .doing this shit all over his facebook, and after three weeks of Dotin. . .I mean Dating she dumped him and he writes some sad fuckign status on facebook -.-) Once she gets tired of him, invite he rover to "catch up" . . .bang.
OF COURSE while you're doing this you're dating other women and NOT particularly waiting on this one, she's just a recyclable piece of ass. Catch and Release, Cop and blow. . .of course you can Re-cop over and over again. This is pretty much the only reason why you should use facebook (unless you have networking stuff to do and even then its a seperate account +linkedin).
Remember You don't have to take shit from a woman, and you don't have to put up with bullshit from a woman, and you defiantely DO NOT have to get angry. If you find your self getting angry with a woman, you need to stop seeing her/relegate her to fb status.
Now of course if you're NOT already banging her and she's giving you attitude. . .this advice does not apply. . .delete her ass from your life.
This only works on women you've already banged.
but yeah there's no need to lose your cool to a woman (nor to a man really. . .as you shouldn't be putting yourself into situations where you need to fight a guy anyway)
If you're being a dick just to pick up girls, you are doing it wrong. Be YOU, but just be your confident, cool, nicely dressed, well-spoken, relaxed you. You don't have to put on an act like a fucking circus monking just to "stick it in." Its best that you don't either, because she'll just expect that kind of attitude, and you'll have to put on that act the whole time. There are women-HOT women that like YOU as you are (as long as you are not clingy/needy, don't take care of yourself,dress like crap) it's not that hard. . .really it's not.
and a lot of times throughout yourday women give you signals that let you know that they want you to talk to them. you should be watching out for those. All in all, game doesn't have to be hard as many many many people make it out to be. . .even with all the feminist b.s. out there.
Plus, you ARE A MAN! A woman's "shelf life' is from 16-28 a MAN's shelf life(where a man is more and mroe attractive to women) is from 30-death! yeah sure >20 can get with women too but once you hit 30, if you've got a decent job and a pad. . .you will DO WELL PERIOD.
you can bang all ages too! from 18(16 in some states/countries) - whatever age you want. . . and yes, there are young women that LOVE older men, period. They are not hard to find either, and in many cases, they'll let you know.
Do not forget that you are a MAN and pretty much have the chance to be sexually fufilled with hot, women for your whole damn life!
so when a chick tries to act shitty to you, just think about that and laugh! There is a chick that somehow popped up on a friends facebook feed. . .she wouldn't give me the time of day waaay back then, I let her go, found other hot women, and in the meantime she got. . .FAAAAAT as hell! AND she's 27 and feeling the heat (i.e. she needs to get married etc etc. . .) I just laughed and laughed.
We men have a LOT of power that we just haven't realized we have, when you realize it, ironically, women will be drawn to you...
so yeah, in the grand scheme of things, you should care about a woman with a shitty attitude is as much as you care about the ants crawling on the ground.
i.e. not even registering in your existence.