I got 2 handjobs this weekend, from 2 different girls.

I've mentioned on my blog and Twitter in the past when I've gotten the rare handjob, and it always manages to elicit a strong reaction from other guys. Most of the time their reaction is, "What is this, middle school?" They all put up a front that girls are just so eager to suck their cocks or fuck them that they never have to settle for a handjob.

I have a theory that most of the dudes criticizing it have not really conducted a "large enough sample."

I believe that if you push a makeout as far as it can go, it can lead to a handjob, even if the girl is not ready to blow you or have sex. Therefore, it's logical that sometimes, if you're having physical encounters with enough girls, you would get handjobs at some point.

Am I the only one getting handjobs, or what?



Just to be clear (if you don't read my blog), I'm having sex with other girls too.

I'm interested in everyone's opinions on this, because I'm going to discuss it in my podcast this week. You can check out the first episode here: http://thequestfor50.com/the-podcast-for-50-episode-1/

I got a handjob back in May from a Jewish girl with a nice ass. She refused to take off her pants--or to show much interest in me overall--but seemed committed to solving the problem when I revealed to her that I had a raging boner under my pants (by putting her hand on it during our make-out).

Once I'd busted, she asked "more?" before taking her hand off my dick.

Quote: (08-13-2013 01:13 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

I got a handjob back in May from a Jewish girl with a nice ass. She refused to take off her pants--or to show much interest in me overall--but seemed committed to solving the problem when I revealed to her that I had a raging boner under my pants (by putting her hand on it during our make-out).

Once I'd busted, she asked, "more?" before taking her hand off my dick.

Haha. I think both the girls this weekend were Jewish. I wonder if that's the hidden variable... Maybe I should've called the thread Handjobs From Jewish Girls.

What the hell is it with handjobs and Jewish girls? The only time in the past decade I've been offered a handjob was from a Jewish girl.

Is this a tactic they teach in Hebrew school or something?

If you Google "Jewish Girls Handjobs" a surprising amount of stuff (mostly handjob-inspired porn) comes up.

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=jewish+girls+handjobs

The list also yields this:

I GAVE A HANDJOB AT JEW CAMP

Maybe we're onto something.

He is not banned so i guess the post is legit. Handjobs can be a nice bonding ritual for a couple as for me, i always go for the anal, no lubricants.

Haha, now it sounds like you're the one trolling.

I've settled for an hj a few times. There are a few conditions for this though:

1) Have i pushed her, sexually, as far as I can?
2) Do I want to see her again?

#2 is important because forcing yourself on a girl repeatedly in a single night can display very low value behavior. So if this chick is a dime that I want to work on then im not going to force myself on her for a measly hand job.

Ill take a handjob any day from a regular. I like em and they show the girl is into putting some effort into pleasing you whilst receiving nothing in return.

I won't take a handy from a girl I haven't banged yet, that I plan on banging, unless she insists.

I don't really like handjobs, it always feels slightly uncomfortable. That being said, I usually let them do it for 10-15 seconds while I try to escalate into something else. So far, that's worked pretty well.

And I thought Jewish girls were known for giving great head, not handies.

I'd honestly rather jerk off than get a handjob. Most girls seem to be terrible at them.

As an escalation move they're fantastic, though. I think it's generally agreed that the timeless hand-on-cock maneuver is one of the most powerful tools a player has when it comes to rounding the bases.

It's an interesting thing when a girl will give a handjob but stop at that point -- no head, no penetration. It's been a long time since I've faced that scenario, sounds like my college days when I hadn't yet developed my closing skills. But agreed that as an escalation move they are strong.

There is a bit of humor with the unpredictable nature of a handy -- at the finish you never know where it will end up.

Interesting, I've found the same connection between Jewish girls and handjobs.

Some of these girls just have more restraint than you usually find. They're whores too, but they're more able at preventing themselves from giving it up. So the handjob is a way of keeping the guy satisfied without having sex. It still means you'll be able to go for the bang later, but it could take a few nights.

The other issue may be that they don't want to have sex too much with non-Jewish guys. Either way, their upbringing is coming out in the handjob. Instead of being chaste they compromise in their mind by jerking guys off. Whatever, escalate anyway.

once i pulled a girl back home and she said she didn't find me attractive enough to fuck, despite us macking the whole night.

i let her sleep over, went for the bang again in the morning and still no dice.

settled for a handjob and rubbed my cum into her face like a dog.

Quote: (08-13-2013 08:55 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

settled for a handjob and rubbed my cum into her face like a dog.

This. If a girl won't fuck me, I'm still going to take off all her clothes, and make like I'm going to fuck her while she holds onto my dick. When I cum I'll blow all over her.

This is better than nothing, and by cumming all over her you can mentally prepare her for a rough fucking should she meet you a second time.

Quote: (08-13-2013 08:55 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

once i pulled a girl back home and she said she didn't find me attractive enough to fuck, despite us macking the whole night.

i let her sleep over, went for the bang again in the morning and still no dice.

settled for a handjob and rubbed my cum into her face like a dog.

Fuckin' A. Good job bro!

i've done that to girls i like as well.

in that case i rub my cum into her face like a maybelline model/angel sent down from heaven.

Hand jobs, can't beat 'em.

Can't remember the last time I got a handjob from a girl in lieu of a bang, (except from girls I was already banging)

And I've gotten maybe 2 blowjobs in the last three years as a first sex act

That wasn't true in the past- it used to be that girls would give handies and BJs as a way to keep a guy interested but put off sex for a bit or give them to guys just as a favor. Now girls just jump right into the bang

How can any man abide a handjob at this point? When that Jewish girl offered me one, I first thought she was joking. When I realized she wasn't, I laughed in her face and walked out and never called her again. That shit is just a waste of my time, and I take it as a sign of disrespect. I would rather a girl remain totally chaste on a first date than to offer me a handjob as some kind of sexual appetizer to a main course that will be served up at a later date. I view it as the girl saying, "I know I'm slutty, and you know I'm slutty, which is why I have your dick in my hand. But I'm just going to make you wait for anything else, because I enjoy stringing things out and watching you squirm."

@scorpion- in principle, I agree. In practice, if the girl is hot, Ill let her handle my equpiment for a little while and try to push her head down. Or put a finger in her pants. If all fails, Ill just go to sleep.

HJ do absolutely zero for me. Lately, even BJ don't make me cum. Most gilrs cant generate enough friction to finish me off. sigh.

Quote: (08-13-2013 08:55 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  

settled for a handjob and rubbed my cum into her face like a dog.

This is gonna be the best podcast ever.

(Recording it Wednesday night, will premiere Thursday).

Quote: (08-13-2013 01:02 PM)scorpion Wrote:  

How can any man abide a handjob at this point? When that Jewish girl offered me one, I first thought she was joking. When I realized she wasn't, I laughed in her face and walked out and never called her again. That shit is just a waste of my time, and I take it as a sign of disrespect. I would rather a girl remain totally chaste on a first date than to offer me a handjob as some kind of sexual appetizer to a main course that will be served up at a later date. I view it as the girl saying, "I know I'm slutty, and you know I'm slutty, which is why I have your dick in my hand. But I'm just going to make you wait for anything else, because I enjoy stringing things out and watching you squirm."

It depends on the quality of the girl, and if it's the first date. If she's so hot that I can still have a very satisfying orgasm, I won't hold it against her. In fact, I will be satisfied with the delayed gratification. This is also dependent on me having a reasonable chance of seeing her again. If it's the only time I'll see her, of course it's sex or bust.

Also, I would NEVER take "I won't have sex but I'll give you a handjob," for an answer. I do not let girls tell me what to do. She has to make me cum with her hands without me saying anything as she resists my efforts to penetrate her. The handjob needs to happen on its own, and that's how I know I was satisfied.

But if she's just a 6 or 7, and she tries to avoid having sex by offering a handjob, she's deluding herself.

I consider a handjob more of a warm up. I dont think I could bust from a handjob.

I like to have the girl put the condom on me. It keeps my boner up and plus she's ready for me to jump right in as soon as it's on. The act always put's a smile on their face!

It's easy to say you wouldn't take a handjob...until you have a bombass chick gently stroking n tugging your cock.

It's not ideal, but I wouldn't turn it down. Generally girls just go straight to giving head though, but I remember many moons ago where girls would start with handjobs.