Quote: (07-07-2013 08:57 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
Quote: (07-05-2013 03:25 PM)Menace Wrote:
We say that banging lots of guys ruins girls, but why isn't the same true of guys? It may take many more, but over time, can't the constant turnover of women corrode us on the inside? Marriage, family, children, these are all very mundane in a real sense...the antithesis of the lifestyle.
This is very true if we're honest with ourselves. When you think about it, there's a reason traditional societies want people to be virgins when they marry and promiscuity is discouraged. If practiced on a wide scale it has a degenerative effect on the stability of society. Men that don't want to settle down and women riding the cock carousel until menopause. This only works if a relative few number of people do it. If it crosses a critical threshold you'll then have social collapse.
The truth is, the fewer sex partners men and women have, the more likely you are to have stable marriages.
I agree with this post somewhat. A lot of us learn game and come to boards like this because initially, we weren't very good with women, at least not in creating sexual attraction. I think a lot of us wanted to find that one right girl to eventually settle down with. Society kind of pushes you in that direction as a youth with all the disney movies and teen movies and sitcoms. Yet that one girl always alluded many of us and led to heartbreak. After failing, many of us probably said "screw it, I'm going to learn how to really attract women and sleep with them with no consequences, and never take all the bullshit from them again." Well, a lot of us got good at game and now, enjoyed our lives and enjoyed women. After fighting so hard for something, it's hard to just give up what you've struggled for and go back.
Think about. You were putty in some woman's hands. You were nice to her, did shit for her, knew you would be always true to her, and she responded by ignoring you or using the power of her vagina to manipulate and use you for whatever it was she wanted. Life sucked big time. Oneitis because an infectious disease.
What was the cure to oneitis? Banging lots of chicks. Never get focused on just one.
As you get older, you get wiser, you get wealthier, you get more life experience... and you get more attractive in the eyes of most woman. The women who rejected you on the other hand get older and less attractive. And, they get replaced by younger, more attractive girls. You travel outside your neighborhood and to other countries and realize that there are just so many gorgeous, feminine girls that understand a man's true nature and accept it, and you go crazy.
You finally learn the system, the true nature of the world, the red pill so to speak. You are in control now of your life and surroundings...you now have the skills to attract beautiful women, play with their minds, manipulate them for your own means if you want, and of course, sleep with them.
Why, after so long, so much struggle, gaining so much self-knowledge, would you want to give that up?
That's the question that comes into my mind now. I went through pain. I learned to deal with it and improve myself to get to a stage where, though not Cassanova, I'd say I do pretty well for myself. I then see friends of mine who I grew up with with girls who were decent when they got married and now 20 lbs. heavier. Some of them are separated or divorced. Others miserable and on the way there. Of course to be fair, there are others who are quite happy and content in their marriages. Sure, they may not have married beauty queens, but still happy and have a good family life.
One childhood friend of mine, a doctor now, married a woman who in my opinion I would rate a fat 4. Had he had some game, being a physician, he could have scored at least an 8 or above. The guy is a radiologist, making at least 500K at year in SoCal. I'm sure that he was also a virgin until he got married. Yet, he's happy with his fat 4 woman and has two kids together. Their marriage is working great. Of course he doesn't know any better. He's never had his choice of women or banged anything close to a C-rated model, but he is happy.
After knowing what I know now and banging the girls I have, I could never go back to where he is or even my old self. I've struggled too hard and come too far. So I tell myself.
This is probably why also when I meet someone who is wife material, after a while I start to get bored of her. I've had too much and perhaps it's ruined me to a bit. Time will tell...
This was good question to post...