I find it funny on this forum how anything related to feelings is dubbed to be "beta" and being a hard stone cold playa is considere "alpha"
I've come to feel that men are inherently "beta" in that they are very much motivated by their feelings, and how they feel for a girl - much more than most think.
I think the problem with the U.S., or anglo girls in general, is that they are so disconnected from their femininity, they don't respect what we could call "a beta guy" or a guy who operates on the basis of his feelings. (can't or will not see it)
Roosh has mentioned that "beta game" works well in Poland, but when he was in Hvar or back in America, the girls did not respond, they responded much better to being "gamed" and "negged" and so on.
I've come to feel the anglo world is a world where the emotions have been suppressed and repressed so heavily that girls and everyone don't want to you have emotions or "feelings" (despite what fucking hollywood says) It makes them uncomfortable, they, and quite often girls do not know how to deal with "feelings"
What we are witnessing on this forum is largely a whole bunch of guys who are generally quite dissatisfied with anglo girls, and the anglosphere in general.
What we are sold as sex is like a product, the egg of a hyper individualised society, that does not respect the metaphysical aspect of sex, which is relationship. I have been very influenced and inspired by players who truly recognise this metaphysical aspect involved and make "all this" work for them as a straight up spiritual practise.
I do think the manosphere overall, is a between a rock and good place, but that good place must be owned.
I don't think the models of relationship set out for us in society are working, and it is up to us, to find out what works for us.
ONS, LTR, STR and so on perhaps should be all in the diet of all men, and how to make these things work for you is an individual learning I think.
I've come to feel that men are inherently "beta" in that they are very much motivated by their feelings, and how they feel for a girl - much more than most think.
I think the problem with the U.S., or anglo girls in general, is that they are so disconnected from their femininity, they don't respect what we could call "a beta guy" or a guy who operates on the basis of his feelings. (can't or will not see it)
Roosh has mentioned that "beta game" works well in Poland, but when he was in Hvar or back in America, the girls did not respond, they responded much better to being "gamed" and "negged" and so on.
I've come to feel the anglo world is a world where the emotions have been suppressed and repressed so heavily that girls and everyone don't want to you have emotions or "feelings" (despite what fucking hollywood says) It makes them uncomfortable, they, and quite often girls do not know how to deal with "feelings"
What we are witnessing on this forum is largely a whole bunch of guys who are generally quite dissatisfied with anglo girls, and the anglosphere in general.
What we are sold as sex is like a product, the egg of a hyper individualised society, that does not respect the metaphysical aspect of sex, which is relationship. I have been very influenced and inspired by players who truly recognise this metaphysical aspect involved and make "all this" work for them as a straight up spiritual practise.
I do think the manosphere overall, is a between a rock and good place, but that good place must be owned.
I don't think the models of relationship set out for us in society are working, and it is up to us, to find out what works for us.
ONS, LTR, STR and so on perhaps should be all in the diet of all men, and how to make these things work for you is an individual learning I think.