Ten Things to Avoid When Hitting on Me (or why I'm nearly done with American women)
06-17-2013, 09:13 PM
women's advice: '1. hit on me, 2. don't hit on me'
Quote: (06-17-2013 03:10 PM)Blackmagic Wrote:
These chicks that think they're so aware of the techniques and routines are often the ones most susceptible to falling for it. There was a girl I used to bang that had a copy of The Game in her night stand and she claimed nothing in that book would work on her. I walked her through our first couple of interactions to show her how I used a lot of methods from the book to get her in the sack. She said she'd turned down a dozen dudes before I strolled up to her the night we met and within 5 minutes she had her tongue down my throat. Anyway, it's all bullshit. Being attractive helps but not being beta in your approach and mannerisms is key.
Quote: (06-17-2013 10:23 AM)scorpion Wrote:
Pure hamster-fueled drivel. The things she says to avoid are simply what she finds annoying from beta men. If an alpha did the same things, she would respond favorably.
This is a more accurate top ten list of things to avoid when hitting on her:
1) Don't be a beta
2) Don't be a beta
3) Don't be a beta
4) Don't be a beta
5) Don't be a beta
6) Don't be a beta
7) Don't be a beta
8) Don't be a beta
9) Don't be a beta
10) Be an alpha
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Seriously? I just told you I'm a sex and dating coach. Do you really think I haven't read The Game?
It's *literally* my job.
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Does it work? Sure. The question is: who does it work on?
It works on women still constantly seeking love and approval from the world, from a substitute father figure, or from themselves.
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Quote: (06-17-2013 11:17 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
I'll give her points for being thin, but if this is the best she can do with professional lighting and make-up, well, I think her whole schtick is a matter of trying to up her SMV by being "selective."
http://www.modelmayhem.com/1002770
This is her on a normal day. Why do such unattractive people insist on acting like they are the shit. At least give me something to look at if you are going to waste my time. What bothers me most is the smug look. "Ya I know I am good looking." which should be "Ya I wish I was good looking".
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Don't assume I don't like whiskey or that I don't know anything about cars because I'm a girl.
Now, I happen to hate whiskey and know next to nothing about cars -- but I don't like you assuming this is true. Doing so makes you look closed-minded and occasionally misogynistic.
Quote: (06-18-2013 08:08 AM)RioNomad Wrote:
Literally made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.
Quote: (06-18-2013 08:08 AM)RioNomad Wrote:
Literally made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.
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Literally made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up.
I've watched some silly cat videos on YouTube, so it's not like I'm the most discerning man in the world.
Quote: (06-17-2013 09:20 AM)Capitán Peligroso Wrote:
Chock full of Hamsterism and PUA vernacular, this list is exactly why I have much more fun gaming women abroad. Among the highlights:
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10. Don't neg
This regretful trend in pick up is more than just obnoxious -- it's obnoxious and obvious. Negging, also known as "negative comments," is praised by pick up artists everywhere, based on the assumption that negging a woman forces her to try to "prove" herself. This, in turn, supposedly puts the man in the power position, so he can get her to "do the work" rather than have to prove himself to her.
Does it work? Sure. The question is: who does it work on?
It works on women still constantly seeking love and approval from the world, from a substitute father figure, or from themselves.
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7. Don't get handsy
Unless it's obvious that I'm really into you, stop touching my lower back, elbow or shoulders. It's not that this is unpleasant; it's just that it's so obvious that this is something else you read in Pickup 101.
Seriously? I just told you I'm a sex and dating coach. Do you really think I haven't read The Game?
It's *literally* my job.
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3. Don't try to make me laughQuote:Quote:(and especially don't be cocky funny, that'll never work...)
2. Don't be cocky
Despite the article being mostly full of crap, there were a couple of points of value:
4. Don't leave your sexuality at the door
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There have been a remarkable number of men apparently hitting on me, who I only realized later were attempting to do so. I've been stunned -- stunned -- to discover that they were interested in me sexually. Bottom line, guys: if you aren't owning and feeling your sexuality, I'm not gonna feel it.
I think a lot of men suppress the fact that they want to fuck because they want to make women "feel comfortable." The problem is, flirting and sex appeal are by definition slightly uncomfortable. That's why it's called sexual tension. How many times have you heard a girl say, "It was so hot how I was in my comfort zone the whole time I was around him..."?
The truth is, you making me feel comfortable will usually make me so "comfortable" that I miss the fact that you're dtf. Because when you act all buddy buddy with me, I assume you just want to be my buddy.
Nobody wants to fuck Mr. Nice Guy. So stop being him if you want to fuck.
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I have mad respect for men who hit on women -- you're 20 times better than the guy who stands in the corner and does nothing. Even if you do everything wrong, I salute you for being a man.
Women will forgive you for being a dick; they will never forgive you for being a pussy...carry on, gentlemen...
Quote: (06-17-2013 05:44 PM)soup Wrote:
It's true that women go on their feelings, but Alphas do the same thing.
The difference is that an Alpha has the power to change his world to conform to his will and intention.
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1) Keep some lube handy.
2) Don't worry about condoms
3) I like being choked
Quote: (10-16-2013 12:29 PM)Ternarydemonite Wrote:
Quote: (06-17-2013 05:44 PM)soup Wrote:
It's true that women go on their feelings, but Alphas do the same thing.
The difference is that an Alpha has the power to change his world to conform to his will and intention.
Indeed men are also affected by hormones. It is called testosterone and it makes menhorny, violent, agressive and proclive to watch Rambo movies. However, it does not impair their judgement like the storm of crazy hormones in a woman's brain.