Hey everyone. I recently got out of a LTR. Done maybe five cold approaches in my entire life. I'm 20.
Time to step up my game. My goal is to do several approaches everyday. Here's my first day.
I went to the library to find cute girls. Came there at 10 PM. There was a high school class with a couple of cute girls. 4 years my junior (legal here). One extremely cute. She was with a lot of friends and disappeared out of sight quick. There was one other cute girl that was working with a guy (he looked gay). I wanted to keep it simple and not do 2-sets today. I told myself, if the either one goes to the bathroom, I'll ask the girl if I can lend a pencil or something. They left shortly after. Too bad.
Approach 1
I was working on a problem set for college. When I needed a break I did a round through the library. I saw a cute girl walking upstairs, definitely a 7, my age. I followed her. She sat in the silent section of the library. I went to sit at the same table, there were several other people there.
I saw she was working through a basic math book I have used as teaching method. After about 15 minutes I went for a quick break and when I came back I strolled past her and said:
Me: "Hey, I know that book."
Her: "Oh, wow".
Me: "Trying to get into university?"
Her: "Yeah I want to do my major in psychology".
Me: "My sister majors in psychology."
I leaned back, legs crossed.
Her: "How do you know this book?"
Me: I taught from it. What tutor firm are you taking lessons from?
Her: X.
Me: "Oh, I'm with Y. I can teach you if you want." *smirk*
Her: "I don't get this problem actually..."
I briefly explained logarithms to her and went back to my place, saying: "let me know if you need help with something else".
She didn't ask for anything else. At this point I had my doubts wether she liked me, but she came across as very shy. 30 minutes went by. I wanted to go. I wanted to write a note, saying: what's your number? and give it to her, but decided to wait a little longer until she would leave.
Her being shy and all, I didn't want to pressure her into announcing her number in front of a whole table of people.
She finally left, I looked up. She looked at me, saying "thanks" and laughing, little shy. I got up walked ten meters away from the table. She followed. I said:
Me: "you're leaving?"
Her: "Yeah, I'm going to my lesson".
Me: Ah, good luck. What's your name?"
Her: "Julia"
Me: "GreenGranted"
I took her hand, shook it, took out my phone and said:
Me: "wanna go for a drink sometime? Put your number in here."
She typed in her number. Her hands were trembling a little. Took that as a positive.
Her: "till drinks"
Me: "see ya."
When I got back to the table, all the girls' eyes were on me. They were rather ugly, but they saw me getting the digits. It must have raised my value haha.
I went outside the library, where I intended to say to cute girls: "Are you the one coming for the physics lesson?" (I actually privately teach, and it's always a hassle to find the right person the first time.). They of course say no, and I say: "Ah, but can I flirt with you for 5 minutes?". I saw no cute girls, and I was very hungry, so I went home. A little disappointing. Will definitely use this line tomorrow and report back. Should've brought more food.
My biggest regret:
After I number closed the shy 7 in the library, I walked around some more and saw a stunning chick, 8.5. I almost got a boner on the spot. 2 years my junior. She was with her father, so I did nothing. I stood behind them on the elevator. They were having an arguement. Then the father took another elevator, the girl went off in another direction, saying "bye loser".
I did NOTHING. 5 seconds too late, I thought of "are you always that cheeky?" or something along those lines. I went back to get my stuff, but couldn't find her afterwards.
There were some cute girls sitting in 5 sets studying, but I wanted to do just 1-sets today and they were hard to find.
Approach 2
My second krav maga lesson this night. I saw a cute girl (with glasses). Walked over and said: "do you always keep your glasses on? I'm wondering if I should keep them on." We ended up sparring for the full 75 minutes. Had a lot of fun. Her body was in very good shape, at least a 7, two years older then me. I walked her to the dressing rooms afterwards, said: "wanna grab a drink sometime?". She hesitated. I said:
"you don't have to." (I smiled big)
Her: "Well, I have a boyfriend, is that a problem?".
Me: "Yeah" (bigger smile)
Her: "Oh, ok, too bad. Sorry." She smiled, then went into dressing room.
Me: "See you next week".
Nothing lost. Question: is it bad to go after girls that are in my weekly activity classes? This girl took my offer very well, smiling, apologising and I'm sure there's nothing awkward next week. But is this always the case?
Supermarket
I strolled to the supermarket TWICE today, but no talent. I ended up chatting up a slightly chubby girl that worked there (pretty face though), but didn't pursue. Can't hurt to have a girl smiling at you when you enter the supermarket. There is a problem, though: I have never seen actual talent at my supermarket. The neighborhood I'm in is kinda poor, with a lot of ethnic minorities, so I don't expect a lot of the hot white girls that I want to be there. On the other hand, I'm in a 500 person student housing, and that's mostly white, so the college chicks are bound to come to the supermarket. Weird.
Pointers on first date with the shy girl?
My ideas: Tuthmosis first date recipe (plenty of bars in my area).
Invite her over on saturday afternoon and drink wine on the courtyard of the student housing (literally beneath my window). Then walk around in the streets, some very nice places nearby. (centre of Amsterdam). Although this is a saturday, and it's a first date, I wanted to do it in the afternoon and enjoy the sun. Problem? I don't think so, but I want your opinions.
Invite her to help me shop for new clothes and stroll through Amsterdam. Do that in the afternoon and then we can cook together and enjoy wine afterwards in my room. (just invite her to the shops, then 'spontaneously' for dinner). Good ideas?
When to text? I was thinking some time tomorrow? Is there a consensus on this, or does it really not matter?
Final question: what do you guys think about asking a hot (7 with big tits) co student for drinks? I KNOW she's into me, she's been eyeing me for weeks, but she's in classes with me and all. (I can avoid speaking if things turn awkward, but still.) Opinions?
This post turned out long... Do you guys appreciate? I will write more of this if you do, at least for the coming weeks.
Thanks for reading.[/b]
Time to step up my game. My goal is to do several approaches everyday. Here's my first day.
I went to the library to find cute girls. Came there at 10 PM. There was a high school class with a couple of cute girls. 4 years my junior (legal here). One extremely cute. She was with a lot of friends and disappeared out of sight quick. There was one other cute girl that was working with a guy (he looked gay). I wanted to keep it simple and not do 2-sets today. I told myself, if the either one goes to the bathroom, I'll ask the girl if I can lend a pencil or something. They left shortly after. Too bad.
Approach 1
I was working on a problem set for college. When I needed a break I did a round through the library. I saw a cute girl walking upstairs, definitely a 7, my age. I followed her. She sat in the silent section of the library. I went to sit at the same table, there were several other people there.
I saw she was working through a basic math book I have used as teaching method. After about 15 minutes I went for a quick break and when I came back I strolled past her and said:
Me: "Hey, I know that book."
Her: "Oh, wow".
Me: "Trying to get into university?"
Her: "Yeah I want to do my major in psychology".
Me: "My sister majors in psychology."
I leaned back, legs crossed.
Her: "How do you know this book?"
Me: I taught from it. What tutor firm are you taking lessons from?
Her: X.
Me: "Oh, I'm with Y. I can teach you if you want." *smirk*
Her: "I don't get this problem actually..."
I briefly explained logarithms to her and went back to my place, saying: "let me know if you need help with something else".
She didn't ask for anything else. At this point I had my doubts wether she liked me, but she came across as very shy. 30 minutes went by. I wanted to go. I wanted to write a note, saying: what's your number? and give it to her, but decided to wait a little longer until she would leave.
Her being shy and all, I didn't want to pressure her into announcing her number in front of a whole table of people.
She finally left, I looked up. She looked at me, saying "thanks" and laughing, little shy. I got up walked ten meters away from the table. She followed. I said:
Me: "you're leaving?"
Her: "Yeah, I'm going to my lesson".
Me: Ah, good luck. What's your name?"
Her: "Julia"
Me: "GreenGranted"
I took her hand, shook it, took out my phone and said:
Me: "wanna go for a drink sometime? Put your number in here."
She typed in her number. Her hands were trembling a little. Took that as a positive.
Her: "till drinks"
Me: "see ya."
When I got back to the table, all the girls' eyes were on me. They were rather ugly, but they saw me getting the digits. It must have raised my value haha.
I went outside the library, where I intended to say to cute girls: "Are you the one coming for the physics lesson?" (I actually privately teach, and it's always a hassle to find the right person the first time.). They of course say no, and I say: "Ah, but can I flirt with you for 5 minutes?". I saw no cute girls, and I was very hungry, so I went home. A little disappointing. Will definitely use this line tomorrow and report back. Should've brought more food.
My biggest regret:
After I number closed the shy 7 in the library, I walked around some more and saw a stunning chick, 8.5. I almost got a boner on the spot. 2 years my junior. She was with her father, so I did nothing. I stood behind them on the elevator. They were having an arguement. Then the father took another elevator, the girl went off in another direction, saying "bye loser".
I did NOTHING. 5 seconds too late, I thought of "are you always that cheeky?" or something along those lines. I went back to get my stuff, but couldn't find her afterwards.
There were some cute girls sitting in 5 sets studying, but I wanted to do just 1-sets today and they were hard to find.
Approach 2
My second krav maga lesson this night. I saw a cute girl (with glasses). Walked over and said: "do you always keep your glasses on? I'm wondering if I should keep them on." We ended up sparring for the full 75 minutes. Had a lot of fun. Her body was in very good shape, at least a 7, two years older then me. I walked her to the dressing rooms afterwards, said: "wanna grab a drink sometime?". She hesitated. I said:
"you don't have to." (I smiled big)
Her: "Well, I have a boyfriend, is that a problem?".
Me: "Yeah" (bigger smile)
Her: "Oh, ok, too bad. Sorry." She smiled, then went into dressing room.
Me: "See you next week".
Nothing lost. Question: is it bad to go after girls that are in my weekly activity classes? This girl took my offer very well, smiling, apologising and I'm sure there's nothing awkward next week. But is this always the case?
Supermarket
I strolled to the supermarket TWICE today, but no talent. I ended up chatting up a slightly chubby girl that worked there (pretty face though), but didn't pursue. Can't hurt to have a girl smiling at you when you enter the supermarket. There is a problem, though: I have never seen actual talent at my supermarket. The neighborhood I'm in is kinda poor, with a lot of ethnic minorities, so I don't expect a lot of the hot white girls that I want to be there. On the other hand, I'm in a 500 person student housing, and that's mostly white, so the college chicks are bound to come to the supermarket. Weird.
Pointers on first date with the shy girl?
My ideas: Tuthmosis first date recipe (plenty of bars in my area).
Invite her over on saturday afternoon and drink wine on the courtyard of the student housing (literally beneath my window). Then walk around in the streets, some very nice places nearby. (centre of Amsterdam). Although this is a saturday, and it's a first date, I wanted to do it in the afternoon and enjoy the sun. Problem? I don't think so, but I want your opinions.
Invite her to help me shop for new clothes and stroll through Amsterdam. Do that in the afternoon and then we can cook together and enjoy wine afterwards in my room. (just invite her to the shops, then 'spontaneously' for dinner). Good ideas?
When to text? I was thinking some time tomorrow? Is there a consensus on this, or does it really not matter?
Final question: what do you guys think about asking a hot (7 with big tits) co student for drinks? I KNOW she's into me, she's been eyeing me for weeks, but she's in classes with me and all. (I can avoid speaking if things turn awkward, but still.) Opinions?
This post turned out long... Do you guys appreciate? I will write more of this if you do, at least for the coming weeks.
Thanks for reading.[/b]