About time I started this thread….
Now that my job/living situation is set, I know my passions, goals, myself, my path, if you will, I can now start pursuing women!
I will be chronicling my “trials and tribulations” of going from a newbie who smacks his dick against virtual Sasha Greys to having porn star sex with three different chicks a month!
I figured to keep all my questions, concerns, stories, etc, in one thread versus creating a new thread every time I have a question or find a revelation that I must share.
My first order of business is confronting my fear of approaching, handling rejection, ego-smashing discomfort, and getting past the opening bell.
I am not going to front, I still shit a brick before I approach a girl. I have some experience but most of my night club game is me standing idol playing with my club soda smelling like baking soda and lost ambition watching the show…
Watching other alphas make approaches..
And do something that resembles dancing….
The first issue I am looking to confront is my social anxiety. I have done well with meditation and exercise, plus reading The Power of Now (http://ow.ly/iJZI2) and The Four Agreements (http://ow.ly/iK04q), and No More Mr Nice Guy (http://ow.ly/iK0j9) has resulted in a big paradigm shift.
I’ve been hitting the gym for months and look like Beast Mode now.
Women at work our complementing me. “Damn Ahab, you can pull some girls!”
My first night out is Friday. They have a bistro with a live band playing hits from the 80s and 90s. It is a meetup.com event.
Chicks wise, in terms of the group, are mostly 30 something washed up has-beens and never-weres. I’ll make my social connections (i.e toss them to my linkedin and Twitter) for what it is worth with them but focus on the young broads. Youngest ones be 18 oldest ones be 30.
Plus, I am dying to ask out this chick at work. Got to love a girl that tells the whole crew that she loves sucking dick (in a joking way but whatever, it was on her mind).
Shit, already an hour behind schedule. Fucking internet addiction.
Off to the gym.
More later.
Now that my job/living situation is set, I know my passions, goals, myself, my path, if you will, I can now start pursuing women!
I will be chronicling my “trials and tribulations” of going from a newbie who smacks his dick against virtual Sasha Greys to having porn star sex with three different chicks a month!
I figured to keep all my questions, concerns, stories, etc, in one thread versus creating a new thread every time I have a question or find a revelation that I must share.
My first order of business is confronting my fear of approaching, handling rejection, ego-smashing discomfort, and getting past the opening bell.
I am not going to front, I still shit a brick before I approach a girl. I have some experience but most of my night club game is me standing idol playing with my club soda smelling like baking soda and lost ambition watching the show…
Watching other alphas make approaches..
And do something that resembles dancing….
The first issue I am looking to confront is my social anxiety. I have done well with meditation and exercise, plus reading The Power of Now (http://ow.ly/iJZI2) and The Four Agreements (http://ow.ly/iK04q), and No More Mr Nice Guy (http://ow.ly/iK0j9) has resulted in a big paradigm shift.
I’ve been hitting the gym for months and look like Beast Mode now.
Women at work our complementing me. “Damn Ahab, you can pull some girls!”
My first night out is Friday. They have a bistro with a live band playing hits from the 80s and 90s. It is a meetup.com event.
Chicks wise, in terms of the group, are mostly 30 something washed up has-beens and never-weres. I’ll make my social connections (i.e toss them to my linkedin and Twitter) for what it is worth with them but focus on the young broads. Youngest ones be 18 oldest ones be 30.
Plus, I am dying to ask out this chick at work. Got to love a girl that tells the whole crew that she loves sucking dick (in a joking way but whatever, it was on her mind).
Shit, already an hour behind schedule. Fucking internet addiction.
Off to the gym.
More later.