Okay guys, here is a little trip report about Oaxaca, Mexico. Unfortunately, not much to tell about game wise, as I´ve suffered from strike out after strike out, as well as bouts of bad luck and bad logistics.
I flew directly into the city of Oaxaca and ended up getting sick my first 4 days that I was there. That put the kibosh on going out my first weekend, and apparrently Friday and Saturday nights are really the only two nights a week with decent nightlife so I didn´t bother going out the rest of my time there.
Oaxaca city is a small city in the foothills of mountains and surrounded by valleys. It is a beautiful place, a colonial Spanish city with really well perserved architecture, stone streets, and a beautiful zocalo (town square) with a really nice church.
The women in the city of Oaxaca are predominantly from the Zapotec indigenous tribe and are some of the least attractive that I have seen in Mexico. The people seem nice and are friendly, but unfortunately I'd estimate that only 5% of the people speak conversational English and another 10% speak a few words and phrases.
I got good eye contact from girls walking around the city, and a guy with good Spanish would have lot's of opportunities for day gaming there, but like I said the women aren't very attractive, although there are a decent amount of 6's and some 7's, though anything that is an 8 will either be a tourist or a woman from another part of Mexico. Since I only speak a very minimal amount of Spanish and barely no one speaks English, I didn't bother trying to spit game at the local women.
It is too bad I was sick Friday and Saturday nights, Friday night I was literally bedridden all day and night, but I went out to dinner on Saturday and there was a lot of people out and a lot of energy in the air. It was some kind of minor Mexican holiday and the streets were full, they were lighting fire works over the city, and I could tell the bars were probably jam packed. There is a street called Alcala that is pedestrian only, stretching from the zocalo to the famous Santo Domingo Church, the street is full of cafes, restaurants, a few bars, art gallerias, etc., and was full of people. I saw some legitimately hot women there, most of which were probably from Mexico City, because apparently Oaxaca is a very popular weekend destination for the middle and upper class people from D.F. to visit.
I stayed at a hostel in Oaxaca and just my good luck it was full of cute girls the days I was sick and feeling miserable, and then cleared out and became full of dudes, couples, and frumpy chicks once I was feeling better. I did attempt to run game on a gourgeous Mexican girl who was staying at the hostel while looking for an apartment, she was a shy, artsy chick who was there to learn the indigenous style of weaving. I thought we hit it off, and hung out in a group setting the first two nights, and then went out to dinner my last night there, just the two of us. She was laughing at all my jokes, engaged in flirting, and accept all my touching (kino), but when I went in for the kiss, she recoiled and totally rejected me. She was for sure a very shy girl and I think she is legitimately a "sexual camel", the type of girl that will go months without sex. Supposedly she claimed she found me attractive and I am better looking than any boyfriend she's had, but she moves really slow and wants to spend a lot of time with a guy before any romance occurs. She was 22 and only claimed to have had 2 boyfriends, it's possible that she was lying to not hurt my feelings, but I think she was telling the truth. This girl was from Puebla near Mexico City and was a solid 8.5 in my book, she had a model face, but only weakness was she had small breasts.
Oaxaca city is a cool place, I never once felt uneasy or unsafe there. The zocalo, churches, and architecture are really beautiful. I did do a few things like visit the ruins on a mountainside called Monte Albon, but mostly I just chilled out, walked around town, hung out in the zocalo and sipped some good coffee. It is nice to see that people there can have fun just hanging out with their friends and family, little kids just play tag, or whatever, it´s not like in the U.S. where everyone has their face attached to an iphone or ipad 2, and little kids can have fun just playing, without complaining about wanting to play XBox or whatever.
The highlight of my time in Oaxaca City was taking a day tour out into the mountains to this spot called Hievre del Agua, which means boiling water in Spanish. The mountains and valleys out there are spectacular scenary filled with rock formations, cactus, and other cool trees and plants. Hievre del Agua is an amazing geological formation, where mineral water bubbles straight up out of the rocks on the side of this mountain cliff and pour through smoothed out rocks into two natural pools that are right on the side of the cliff. The water than drips over the cliff side to create what is called a petrified waterfall, which looks like stalagtites hanging on the side of the cliff face. It might not sound so cool the way I describe it, but it was a very beautiful place.
I spent about a week in Oaxaca City and like I said, no luck with the ladies what so ever, then I split and headed to the coast to the town of Puerto Escondido. P.E. is a surfer beach town, and is known as the Mexican pipeline and being one of the best beach breaks in all of Mexico and the world. I don't surf, and when I was there apparently the waves were shit. P.E. has a very unique vibe, the surf scene definitely dominates, but there is also a counter culture, hippy vibe, as well as an outlaw vibe. I was told by this older Mexican hippy artist dude that I befriended that there are a lot of Mexicans from the U.S., white American expats, and expats from other countries that dipped out on the law and found refuge living in Puerto.
There is a pretty heavy underground drug vibe too there, personally I don't fuck with coke, but I was offered it a few times and saw people take bumps at the bar as well. I am a ganja smoker and was able to find some pretty decent buds, Oaxaca is supposed to have some of the best herb in all of Mexico and I can see why, driving from Oaxaca city to Puerto you pass spectacular forested mountains that are dry and perfect growing conditions, similar to the emerald triangle in NorCal. The first bag I got was shwag, but I payed like 8 bucks for a quarter oz. I started chilling with the 20 year old surfer kid I copped from he was mad chill and spoke decent English, I befriended him, so he ended up hooking me up nice on my next two, I got some good outdoor sensimilla bud for like 5 dollars for 1/8th.
Puerto was hot as fucking balls and I was having a hard time dealing with the heat there, I tried to stay out of the mid day sun as it was blazing in the upper 90's every day with high humidity. My favorite thing to do was roll down to Zicatela Beach at sunset, the entire beach is lined with restaurants and bars that have comfy lounge chair set up, for people to lie back order drinks and watch the sunset. I smoke a jay with the surfer kid then roll down, kick back, and drink a fresh squeezed juice, or cocktail. The sunsets were amazing with the sky all full of different colors, shades, or orange, red, and purple.
There are some legitimately fine women in Puerto, most are tourists from Europe, Argentina, Israel, or the U.S. Day game would be a good option as I saw more hot chicks out during the day than at night time, although a lot of the hottest girls were with their boyfriends, which made them pretty inaccessable. For some reason the talent I saw at night couldn't touch the talent during the day. I am really lazy and never do day game back home, so I didn't bother with it while there, plus a lot of day I was just so drained from the heat/sun, or hung over from a late night of drinking.
There is somewhat decent nightlife in P.E., although it works out that there is usually only one bar a night that has popping nightlife, and everyone out to party usually goes to that bar. Towards the weekend the spot seemed to be "Bar Fly" which was on a rooftop and had your classic set up with DJ's, bar, spots to sit on the outer edges, and a dance floor space.
Most of the people in P.E. were traveling in big groups of friends, especially the girls, which made it a bit tougher for me rolling solo dolo without a wingman. It is definitely the kind of place where having a wing or crew will work to your benefit. I went out solid 3 night I was there, but once again wasn't able to manifest any hook ups. I kept falling into this trap where I would open well, hook the girl, and then somewhere during middle game, things would deteriorate. I didn't approach as hard as I could have, probably only doing 3-4 serious approaches during the night.
My best approach was on a Russian girl who was legit in the 8-9 range, her English wasn't so great, but being playful, using good body language, etc. I was able to get her laughing, and flirting. She seemed to be really into me, asking a grip of questions about me etc. In my mind I was like "it's on, I got this!" and I quickly transitioned her to the dancefloor. We were having a great time dancing and were grinding face to face, but every time I tried to kiss her she turned her head and I got cheek. I kissed her neck a few time, and had my hand on her ass, but she wouldn't let me kiss her.
She seemed to have some kind of strange situation as she was traveling with two Russian dudes, but she claimed neither one was her boyfriend and they were only co-workers. Yet she was constantly looking over her shoulder, like she was looking out for them, and one dude came up to us for a min. said something in Russian looked me up and down, and was being hella awkward. Dude didn't seem like a mafioso or bad ass or anything, so I didn't give a fuck and proceeded to do my thing. At a certain point after dancing for like 15 mins or so she claimed she had to go to the bathroom, and when she came back was acting really distant, pulling away, etc. So I said fuck it, I'm not about to stick to this girl like glue, and cut my losses and moved on. In retrospect, I think there may have been some cultural differences, as I'm used to escalating fast with American sluts. I probably should have isolated her to the back seating area, talking a bit more and then tried to go in for the kill.
There were some hot chicks at the bar, but usually around 2 AM it turned into a massive cockfest with 2 to 1 guy to girl ratios, and all the guys there gringo and locals were approaching like mad. It got to be one of those situations where girls egos were getting inflated to crazy levels as the night progressed, and were hit on by a dozen guys. Not to make excuses for myself, but it wasn't the most conducive place to try to run game solo dolo status. I thought I ran pretty good game, despite having nothing to show.
All my approaches opened well and hooked with the exception of 3 American girls who were with some gay dude. It was obvious from their accents and way they talked they were American, I opened with "let me guess you girls are American?". The fucking bitches were like "uh NO!" and turned their back to me. I tried to play it off and save the interaction, by using some humor, and said "oh so you're from Can-a-da, eh?" in a playful way in my best Canadian accent, they again were like "nice try" in a bitchy way, so I basically was like fuck you. They were your quintessential American 6's who thought they were 9's. I also opened well and ran solid game on two Argie girls who were cute and seemed really down, but ended up getting c-blocked by thier large social circle.
The women on the Oaxaca coast are substantially hotter than in the city of Oaxaca. I think it is because they are from a different tribe originally either Mixtec or Mextec, whereas the ones in Oaxaca City are Zapotec. The women in P.E. tended to have really slamming bodies, with huge, round shapely asses similar to Brazilian girls. They didn't have the best faces and they were some butter faces for sure, but overall I thought they were cute and I would have happily fucked the shit out of them. I kind of mentally c-blocked myself, because I don't speak Spanish and virtually none of them speak English, I told myself it wasn't even worth trying to approach.
One thing I will say is that the stereotype that Latin women like blonde hair and blue eyed guys seemed to be true. I saw a few German guys who looked really lame and weren't even that handsome, but got a lot of attention from the local chicks because they were tall and had blue eyes and blonde hair. I am not Mexican, but have more olive skin, brown hair, and brown eyes, so I didn't really get any attention from the local chicks. Also the local chicks seemed to have kind of like a stone face if you know what I mean, like they carry a scowl and have a chip on their shoulder, but maybe I am just imagining this. I bet if you spoke Spanish and were friendly and broke the ice, they would warm up a lot.
The coolest thing I did in P.E. was a boat trip out on the water. The group I went with were all older lame Americans, but we saw a grip of aquatic life. First there was a school of manta rays that where propelling themselves a good 5 plus ft out of the water, flapping their sides like wings. Then we found multiple groups of spotted dolphins who were swimming in big schools. They would swim up right along side the boat and jump up and do flips in the air. I know it sounds cliche, but they are such beautiful animals.
Their lives seem so much fun, and they always seem to be smiling, laughing, and playing. They would jump up 10 plus ft out of the water and would be like racing and competing with thier dolphin friends to see who could do the most flips and go the fasted. I jumped into the water with snorkel and fins and had dolphins swimming on both sides of me and underneath me. It was an amazing experiences, but unfortunately spotted dolphins are a bit more shy so they kept their distance and swam off when they saw me, apparently spinner dolphins are really friendly and curious and will swim up rightalong side of you. On the way back to shore I also saw a grip of large sea turtles that were just kind of chilling and bobbing on the top of the water.
After P.E. I went to Huatulco which is a beach resort area about 2 hours south of Puerto. Huatulco has some beautiful beaches and good snorkel spots, but there is no nightife at that place, and is really boring at night time. I stayed at a nice hotel, but it was full of older American couples. I went out Friday and Saturday nights checked out every bar and the one club in town and they were all completely dead. The only people there were couples and big groups of Mexicans who were seated around tables. There were a grip of cute girls in Huatulco, but most were jail bait in the 16-18 range. There were some hot twenty somethings, but all seemed to be wifed up and have kids. Women hit the wall hard here in their late twenties, because they all pop out a few kids in thier early twenties, and coupled with a poor diet and lack of fitness culture, it seriously catches up with them.
The highlights of Huatulco were snorkeling at this spot called Entegra where I had the reef all to myself, since Mexian aren't big swimmers. The water wasn't too deep there so I could dive down to the reef where there were huge schools of tropical fish and I got to see some really amazing fish up close that were all kinds of bright shades of florescent colors. The other sick thing I did was a jet ski tour where we jet skied out on the open water to a bunch of different bays and chilled at this beautiful non developed beach called La India that was totally empty, and had cristal clear calm water.
Currently I am in San Cristobal de las Casas at a hostel, and while I'm having a good time, once again I am frustrated by my lack of success gaming. I have been focusing on European tourist girls, but they all seem to either be cold, uninterestd, have boyfriends back home they claim to be faithful, or are sexual camels. Once again I will take responsibility for my lack of success and put it on me, but I seriously have been going out with these girls and they aren't hooking up with other dudes, barely drink, and go home from the bar early. The ones who are partying harder seem to just be attention whoring and not hooking up as well. I went hard Thursday night and once again, opened well, but everything fizzled out. I had some Aussie chicks be straight up rude to me and shoot me down, and admitedly it had me questioning my self worth to an extent. I'm like is my game that shit, and I not that attractive, etc. All in all though despite being sexually frustrated I am trying to hold my chin up and say fuck em, I know who I am and I know my self worth.
I could go on and on, but I've basically written a novel here, and without any game successes to write about I should cut this off. One last note I will add is I don't get the hotter Mexican chicks, there seems to be no rhyme or reason to the guys they hook up with. It might sound kind of arrogant, but I feel that I am taller, buffer, more stylish and better looking than the vast majority of men in this part of Mexico. I can't even count how many times I have seen a hot chick with a dude that was either mad short, ugly, scrawny as hell, pudgy, old, bald, or dressed like shit. I am like WTF?, how are these guys pulling these chicks? I can only surmise that social circle and maybe social staus play a big roll in how people hook up here, either that or they have different standards for what is attractive. I'm sure in Mexico city and the nothern cities it is different and there is more logic to who these women are hooking up with.
I flew directly into the city of Oaxaca and ended up getting sick my first 4 days that I was there. That put the kibosh on going out my first weekend, and apparrently Friday and Saturday nights are really the only two nights a week with decent nightlife so I didn´t bother going out the rest of my time there.
Oaxaca city is a small city in the foothills of mountains and surrounded by valleys. It is a beautiful place, a colonial Spanish city with really well perserved architecture, stone streets, and a beautiful zocalo (town square) with a really nice church.
The women in the city of Oaxaca are predominantly from the Zapotec indigenous tribe and are some of the least attractive that I have seen in Mexico. The people seem nice and are friendly, but unfortunately I'd estimate that only 5% of the people speak conversational English and another 10% speak a few words and phrases.
I got good eye contact from girls walking around the city, and a guy with good Spanish would have lot's of opportunities for day gaming there, but like I said the women aren't very attractive, although there are a decent amount of 6's and some 7's, though anything that is an 8 will either be a tourist or a woman from another part of Mexico. Since I only speak a very minimal amount of Spanish and barely no one speaks English, I didn't bother trying to spit game at the local women.
It is too bad I was sick Friday and Saturday nights, Friday night I was literally bedridden all day and night, but I went out to dinner on Saturday and there was a lot of people out and a lot of energy in the air. It was some kind of minor Mexican holiday and the streets were full, they were lighting fire works over the city, and I could tell the bars were probably jam packed. There is a street called Alcala that is pedestrian only, stretching from the zocalo to the famous Santo Domingo Church, the street is full of cafes, restaurants, a few bars, art gallerias, etc., and was full of people. I saw some legitimately hot women there, most of which were probably from Mexico City, because apparently Oaxaca is a very popular weekend destination for the middle and upper class people from D.F. to visit.
I stayed at a hostel in Oaxaca and just my good luck it was full of cute girls the days I was sick and feeling miserable, and then cleared out and became full of dudes, couples, and frumpy chicks once I was feeling better. I did attempt to run game on a gourgeous Mexican girl who was staying at the hostel while looking for an apartment, she was a shy, artsy chick who was there to learn the indigenous style of weaving. I thought we hit it off, and hung out in a group setting the first two nights, and then went out to dinner my last night there, just the two of us. She was laughing at all my jokes, engaged in flirting, and accept all my touching (kino), but when I went in for the kiss, she recoiled and totally rejected me. She was for sure a very shy girl and I think she is legitimately a "sexual camel", the type of girl that will go months without sex. Supposedly she claimed she found me attractive and I am better looking than any boyfriend she's had, but she moves really slow and wants to spend a lot of time with a guy before any romance occurs. She was 22 and only claimed to have had 2 boyfriends, it's possible that she was lying to not hurt my feelings, but I think she was telling the truth. This girl was from Puebla near Mexico City and was a solid 8.5 in my book, she had a model face, but only weakness was she had small breasts.
Oaxaca city is a cool place, I never once felt uneasy or unsafe there. The zocalo, churches, and architecture are really beautiful. I did do a few things like visit the ruins on a mountainside called Monte Albon, but mostly I just chilled out, walked around town, hung out in the zocalo and sipped some good coffee. It is nice to see that people there can have fun just hanging out with their friends and family, little kids just play tag, or whatever, it´s not like in the U.S. where everyone has their face attached to an iphone or ipad 2, and little kids can have fun just playing, without complaining about wanting to play XBox or whatever.
The highlight of my time in Oaxaca City was taking a day tour out into the mountains to this spot called Hievre del Agua, which means boiling water in Spanish. The mountains and valleys out there are spectacular scenary filled with rock formations, cactus, and other cool trees and plants. Hievre del Agua is an amazing geological formation, where mineral water bubbles straight up out of the rocks on the side of this mountain cliff and pour through smoothed out rocks into two natural pools that are right on the side of the cliff. The water than drips over the cliff side to create what is called a petrified waterfall, which looks like stalagtites hanging on the side of the cliff face. It might not sound so cool the way I describe it, but it was a very beautiful place.
I spent about a week in Oaxaca City and like I said, no luck with the ladies what so ever, then I split and headed to the coast to the town of Puerto Escondido. P.E. is a surfer beach town, and is known as the Mexican pipeline and being one of the best beach breaks in all of Mexico and the world. I don't surf, and when I was there apparently the waves were shit. P.E. has a very unique vibe, the surf scene definitely dominates, but there is also a counter culture, hippy vibe, as well as an outlaw vibe. I was told by this older Mexican hippy artist dude that I befriended that there are a lot of Mexicans from the U.S., white American expats, and expats from other countries that dipped out on the law and found refuge living in Puerto.
There is a pretty heavy underground drug vibe too there, personally I don't fuck with coke, but I was offered it a few times and saw people take bumps at the bar as well. I am a ganja smoker and was able to find some pretty decent buds, Oaxaca is supposed to have some of the best herb in all of Mexico and I can see why, driving from Oaxaca city to Puerto you pass spectacular forested mountains that are dry and perfect growing conditions, similar to the emerald triangle in NorCal. The first bag I got was shwag, but I payed like 8 bucks for a quarter oz. I started chilling with the 20 year old surfer kid I copped from he was mad chill and spoke decent English, I befriended him, so he ended up hooking me up nice on my next two, I got some good outdoor sensimilla bud for like 5 dollars for 1/8th.
Puerto was hot as fucking balls and I was having a hard time dealing with the heat there, I tried to stay out of the mid day sun as it was blazing in the upper 90's every day with high humidity. My favorite thing to do was roll down to Zicatela Beach at sunset, the entire beach is lined with restaurants and bars that have comfy lounge chair set up, for people to lie back order drinks and watch the sunset. I smoke a jay with the surfer kid then roll down, kick back, and drink a fresh squeezed juice, or cocktail. The sunsets were amazing with the sky all full of different colors, shades, or orange, red, and purple.
There are some legitimately fine women in Puerto, most are tourists from Europe, Argentina, Israel, or the U.S. Day game would be a good option as I saw more hot chicks out during the day than at night time, although a lot of the hottest girls were with their boyfriends, which made them pretty inaccessable. For some reason the talent I saw at night couldn't touch the talent during the day. I am really lazy and never do day game back home, so I didn't bother with it while there, plus a lot of day I was just so drained from the heat/sun, or hung over from a late night of drinking.
There is somewhat decent nightlife in P.E., although it works out that there is usually only one bar a night that has popping nightlife, and everyone out to party usually goes to that bar. Towards the weekend the spot seemed to be "Bar Fly" which was on a rooftop and had your classic set up with DJ's, bar, spots to sit on the outer edges, and a dance floor space.
Most of the people in P.E. were traveling in big groups of friends, especially the girls, which made it a bit tougher for me rolling solo dolo without a wingman. It is definitely the kind of place where having a wing or crew will work to your benefit. I went out solid 3 night I was there, but once again wasn't able to manifest any hook ups. I kept falling into this trap where I would open well, hook the girl, and then somewhere during middle game, things would deteriorate. I didn't approach as hard as I could have, probably only doing 3-4 serious approaches during the night.
My best approach was on a Russian girl who was legit in the 8-9 range, her English wasn't so great, but being playful, using good body language, etc. I was able to get her laughing, and flirting. She seemed to be really into me, asking a grip of questions about me etc. In my mind I was like "it's on, I got this!" and I quickly transitioned her to the dancefloor. We were having a great time dancing and were grinding face to face, but every time I tried to kiss her she turned her head and I got cheek. I kissed her neck a few time, and had my hand on her ass, but she wouldn't let me kiss her.
She seemed to have some kind of strange situation as she was traveling with two Russian dudes, but she claimed neither one was her boyfriend and they were only co-workers. Yet she was constantly looking over her shoulder, like she was looking out for them, and one dude came up to us for a min. said something in Russian looked me up and down, and was being hella awkward. Dude didn't seem like a mafioso or bad ass or anything, so I didn't give a fuck and proceeded to do my thing. At a certain point after dancing for like 15 mins or so she claimed she had to go to the bathroom, and when she came back was acting really distant, pulling away, etc. So I said fuck it, I'm not about to stick to this girl like glue, and cut my losses and moved on. In retrospect, I think there may have been some cultural differences, as I'm used to escalating fast with American sluts. I probably should have isolated her to the back seating area, talking a bit more and then tried to go in for the kill.
There were some hot chicks at the bar, but usually around 2 AM it turned into a massive cockfest with 2 to 1 guy to girl ratios, and all the guys there gringo and locals were approaching like mad. It got to be one of those situations where girls egos were getting inflated to crazy levels as the night progressed, and were hit on by a dozen guys. Not to make excuses for myself, but it wasn't the most conducive place to try to run game solo dolo status. I thought I ran pretty good game, despite having nothing to show.
All my approaches opened well and hooked with the exception of 3 American girls who were with some gay dude. It was obvious from their accents and way they talked they were American, I opened with "let me guess you girls are American?". The fucking bitches were like "uh NO!" and turned their back to me. I tried to play it off and save the interaction, by using some humor, and said "oh so you're from Can-a-da, eh?" in a playful way in my best Canadian accent, they again were like "nice try" in a bitchy way, so I basically was like fuck you. They were your quintessential American 6's who thought they were 9's. I also opened well and ran solid game on two Argie girls who were cute and seemed really down, but ended up getting c-blocked by thier large social circle.
The women on the Oaxaca coast are substantially hotter than in the city of Oaxaca. I think it is because they are from a different tribe originally either Mixtec or Mextec, whereas the ones in Oaxaca City are Zapotec. The women in P.E. tended to have really slamming bodies, with huge, round shapely asses similar to Brazilian girls. They didn't have the best faces and they were some butter faces for sure, but overall I thought they were cute and I would have happily fucked the shit out of them. I kind of mentally c-blocked myself, because I don't speak Spanish and virtually none of them speak English, I told myself it wasn't even worth trying to approach.
One thing I will say is that the stereotype that Latin women like blonde hair and blue eyed guys seemed to be true. I saw a few German guys who looked really lame and weren't even that handsome, but got a lot of attention from the local chicks because they were tall and had blue eyes and blonde hair. I am not Mexican, but have more olive skin, brown hair, and brown eyes, so I didn't really get any attention from the local chicks. Also the local chicks seemed to have kind of like a stone face if you know what I mean, like they carry a scowl and have a chip on their shoulder, but maybe I am just imagining this. I bet if you spoke Spanish and were friendly and broke the ice, they would warm up a lot.
The coolest thing I did in P.E. was a boat trip out on the water. The group I went with were all older lame Americans, but we saw a grip of aquatic life. First there was a school of manta rays that where propelling themselves a good 5 plus ft out of the water, flapping their sides like wings. Then we found multiple groups of spotted dolphins who were swimming in big schools. They would swim up right along side the boat and jump up and do flips in the air. I know it sounds cliche, but they are such beautiful animals.
Their lives seem so much fun, and they always seem to be smiling, laughing, and playing. They would jump up 10 plus ft out of the water and would be like racing and competing with thier dolphin friends to see who could do the most flips and go the fasted. I jumped into the water with snorkel and fins and had dolphins swimming on both sides of me and underneath me. It was an amazing experiences, but unfortunately spotted dolphins are a bit more shy so they kept their distance and swam off when they saw me, apparently spinner dolphins are really friendly and curious and will swim up rightalong side of you. On the way back to shore I also saw a grip of large sea turtles that were just kind of chilling and bobbing on the top of the water.
After P.E. I went to Huatulco which is a beach resort area about 2 hours south of Puerto. Huatulco has some beautiful beaches and good snorkel spots, but there is no nightife at that place, and is really boring at night time. I stayed at a nice hotel, but it was full of older American couples. I went out Friday and Saturday nights checked out every bar and the one club in town and they were all completely dead. The only people there were couples and big groups of Mexicans who were seated around tables. There were a grip of cute girls in Huatulco, but most were jail bait in the 16-18 range. There were some hot twenty somethings, but all seemed to be wifed up and have kids. Women hit the wall hard here in their late twenties, because they all pop out a few kids in thier early twenties, and coupled with a poor diet and lack of fitness culture, it seriously catches up with them.
The highlights of Huatulco were snorkeling at this spot called Entegra where I had the reef all to myself, since Mexian aren't big swimmers. The water wasn't too deep there so I could dive down to the reef where there were huge schools of tropical fish and I got to see some really amazing fish up close that were all kinds of bright shades of florescent colors. The other sick thing I did was a jet ski tour where we jet skied out on the open water to a bunch of different bays and chilled at this beautiful non developed beach called La India that was totally empty, and had cristal clear calm water.
Currently I am in San Cristobal de las Casas at a hostel, and while I'm having a good time, once again I am frustrated by my lack of success gaming. I have been focusing on European tourist girls, but they all seem to either be cold, uninterestd, have boyfriends back home they claim to be faithful, or are sexual camels. Once again I will take responsibility for my lack of success and put it on me, but I seriously have been going out with these girls and they aren't hooking up with other dudes, barely drink, and go home from the bar early. The ones who are partying harder seem to just be attention whoring and not hooking up as well. I went hard Thursday night and once again, opened well, but everything fizzled out. I had some Aussie chicks be straight up rude to me and shoot me down, and admitedly it had me questioning my self worth to an extent. I'm like is my game that shit, and I not that attractive, etc. All in all though despite being sexually frustrated I am trying to hold my chin up and say fuck em, I know who I am and I know my self worth.
I could go on and on, but I've basically written a novel here, and without any game successes to write about I should cut this off. One last note I will add is I don't get the hotter Mexican chicks, there seems to be no rhyme or reason to the guys they hook up with. It might sound kind of arrogant, but I feel that I am taller, buffer, more stylish and better looking than the vast majority of men in this part of Mexico. I can't even count how many times I have seen a hot chick with a dude that was either mad short, ugly, scrawny as hell, pudgy, old, bald, or dressed like shit. I am like WTF?, how are these guys pulling these chicks? I can only surmise that social circle and maybe social staus play a big roll in how people hook up here, either that or they have different standards for what is attractive. I'm sure in Mexico city and the nothern cities it is different and there is more logic to who these women are hooking up with.
