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Don't feed her need for gossip
11-11-2012, 06:41 PM
I remember Roissy writing something about that you shouldn't feed a girl's need for gossip.
Any thoughts? Because I like talking a little bit of gossip with girls. Don't you why, it gets them going I guess. It makes them talk more and roughly 1000 subjects pops up surrounding the thing we are talking about. But then again, not sure if it brings me any closer to her pussy.
Somehow I feel that it's sort of a beta trap, but I'm not sure. Is this a "no-no" and something I should stop immediately?
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Don't feed her need for gossip
11-11-2012, 07:05 PM
Sure you can...if you wanna end up being her girlfriend
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Don't feed her need for gossip
11-12-2012, 06:50 AM
Roissy also wrote that a little bit of beta goes a loooong way with girls, so chat it up but dont get carried away and lose track of what you're actually there for.
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Don't feed her need for gossip
11-12-2012, 03:29 PM
gossip is gossip.
People WILL talk about you.
No way around it. Gossip about other people too.
Im in a small city. It's like im in high school again. I think you need to gossip. There's not a whole lot else to do to relate to people here: "Oh, you know so-and-so? Cool, yeah we hung out, I remember she dated bobby, did you know him?" It establishes common ground. And the things people will say are fucking CRUEL.
Man/woman is probably the cruelest of all animals in the universe.
Your reputation is something to be careful of. Mine's pretty fucked right now. But it's fun - if extremely nerveracking and difficult - to raise from the ashes like a fucking phoenix.
Are you in the scene? The point is, it sucks being an outsider, but it sucks conforming to the scene too. There's the scene, and then there's your scene.
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Don't feed her need for gossip
11-12-2012, 04:14 PM
Ahh, I'm jealous of you.
Gossip is much more hurtful when you're naturally introverted like me.
Gossip is a tool. It's fun to hear about other people's demons even if its not fun to hear other's talk about your own.
Gossipping is also about friendship. You don't have to fuck every girl. Especially in this small city I'm in now, it's much more important to be cool with the girls & flirt some, but not be too aggressive. Then the sex will come.
God it's taken me so fucking long to realize this and I still cant implement it. LOLOLOL